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AIBU to retrain in my thirties - although I don’t know what to do!

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Aberforthsgoat · 02/03/2019 19:06

Short story - my entire career has been based in an industry that is now dying.
I went freelance five years ago when it was still quite profitable but the work just isn’t there anymore and when it is, it’s not well paid.
I can pick up odd jobs and bits and pieces here and there and have supplemented it with other similar types of work but I don’t feel like it’s a long term prospect for earning a decent wage.

Only now I’m kind of stuck as I feel like I should refrain and do something more profitable... but I have no idea where to start!

To give you an idea my career is in a niche part of publishing (that’s quite loose but will give you an idea of my skill set).

I’m wondering if I should stick with what I’m doing and just try and be more creative at finding work and clients - is retraining now a silly idea?!

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Likethewind321 · 02/03/2019 22:56

My cousin retrained as a police officer aged 30 after spending his 20s in comms. He’s now qualifying for CID. Maybe wouldn’t float your boat, but he’s absolutely loving it and lots of opportunities to specialise in an area of interest further down the line.

Bowerbird5 · 02/03/2019 22:57

I retrained at 35 I went to college full time for two years. Go for it. You need to be quick though as interviews are usually held in March.

OftenHangry · 02/03/2019 23:00

I feel you! Early 30s. I got stuck in industry I hate and now I am working on moving into COMPLETELY different one. It's scary. And I think I overshot😂

If you are not sure have a look at coursera. They have mini courses and maybe something will interest you.

Since you are in publishing, maybe some online magazine could be good? Unless you want a complete change.

Good luck!

SuziQ10 · 02/03/2019 23:04

Absolutely retrain.

I would like to retrain as a social worker (completely different from my current Event Management career) once my DC are a little older. I'll be 30 soon.

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FilthyforFirth · 02/03/2019 23:13

I'm mid 30s and just retrained to become a project manager. Previous career was comms based. Bit scary but I figure we still have loads of years left to work sadly! Good luck.

HermioneKipper · 02/03/2019 23:22

Could you work in comms/PR? They all want journo qualifications/experience? Not badly paid either

mamansnet · 02/03/2019 23:28

Massively outing but what the hell. Event management! I'm from a multimedia journalism background too and am finding there's quite a lot of crossover:

  • researching, writing and presenting ideas/projects
  • identifying and writing to a target audience
  • project production & coordination
  • audiovisual needs
  • working to deadlines/stress management
  • time and team management
  • rigorous attention to detail & accuracy

The good thing about events is that it seems to have a decent amount of recruitment going on, where I'm based in any case. The networking I've done so far suggests the journo background is definitely going to help open doors.

About a year ago, it just hit me that besides being bloody good at planning and organising stuff, I'd get more job satisfaction out of doing something that makes other people feel good. They go to events to enjoy themselves or to learn something, whereas reading/watching and working in the news is just soul destroying. Haven't regretted the career change for an instant!

ShinyYellowShoes · 03/03/2019 00:59

I'm early 30s, in the civil service working towards retraining in grad medicine (doing loads of voluntary work experience and entry exam prep to try and get in hopefully during this year's round of applications).

Like a PP said, while I quite enjoy my current career and it has good prospects, I have until 68 to work, or even older. That's longer than I've been alive so why not at least try and get into something I've long wanted to do and strongly feel will suit me?

I think if you are thinking of changing direction but not sure to what, having a good look at jobs websites such as the guardian to get an idea of what roles are out there then researching further into any that take your interest might be as good a start as any. Also if you went to uni or college, maybe get in touch with their old careers team and see if they can advise, not sure if there's any cut off date for helping alumni but they might be able to advise you!

Aberforthsgoat · 03/03/2019 09:41

@parly you’re so right, it drives me mad though!

@hermionekipper it’s soemthing I’ve wondered about, I’ve written press releases and a few bits and pieces like that before

@mamansnet thanks for sharing that’s really interesting! I’m glad it’s working out for you

@shinyyellowshoes this is what I’m thinking. Thanks for the advise!

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tomhazard · 03/03/2019 09:49

I am 33. I have given 10 years to my career and have definite plans to give it 3 more (going to do it abroad for more money) before I 100% find something else to do.
I have youngish DC and once the youngest one is in year 3 that's my moment to do something else. I don't know what yet but I am just cheering you on really as there's a lot of working life left- if you want to change you should!

Aberforthsgoat · 03/03/2019 10:01

Thank you @tomhazard :)

I’ve decided that this week I am going to properly start thinking about what I could do and researching what’s out there

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IchWill · 03/03/2019 10:31

Hey OP. I don't think you need to retrain per se. Just some tweaking to your CV may cut it.

I worked in IT for 10 years in technical roles, everything from helpdesk at the start, to desktop support engineer and finally I was an Information Security analyst, it was good fun for a while and I loved working in a male-dominated environment. But like you, the industry became unstable, mainly due to companies outsource the IT to India when looking to save money. I also had got bored of IT and wanted to do something more creative. I did better at creative subjects at school and quite frankly, I'd ended up in IT by mistake.

In my last job in IT, I worked for a very large retail organisation in their head office, and decided I wanted to get into Marketing, even though I had no qualifications in Marketing! I'd sorted many IT problems for the Head of Marketing and build up a good relationship with him. One day I asked to meet him in the canteen for coffee, explained I wanted into his department and asked how I could boost my chances / persuade him I could do it. He was unconvinced that I had the skill set and also said I was 'over qualified' for most of his roles. (Huh?) Anyway, getting to the point, a role came up in the photo studio, which officially sat under Marketing, where we took photos for our huge website of products, plus promotionsl leaflets and emails etc. It was an Account Manager role, organising the photo shoots, booking models / stylists / photographers etc. I had all the core skills required, just not experience in the field directly. I ended up proving that the skills I had like, project management, stakeholder liaison, working to deadlines etc and got the job.

After 4 years I'd done all I could, but couldn't get a job anywhere else. As the job was niche I couldn't get a Marketing job elsewhere, employers just saw the 10 years in IT and it outweighed the 4 years in the studio, which they didn't view as an actual Marketing job.

So I tweaked my CV, used buzz words that would get picked up, so in my studio job, I talked about being part of a large MARKETING department, managing extensive CAMPAIGNS, I gave examples of PRODUCT SALES UPLIFT due to DIRECT MARKETING emails that used the photography I had overseen.

Then on my IT section of my CV, I changed the word users for CLIENTS and people who requested projects were STAKEHOLDERS. I also dumbed down the technical parts of my IT career and focused more on the project delivery, meeting deadlines and client liaison.

Sounds crazy, but I had to help the employer make that mental jump.

I then forged relationships with the best recruitment agencies and I started working as a contractor (on a PAYE basis) for them, it was easier for me to get into big name companies for 3-6 month stints, as I met the brief of their short term needs, was available and the agency sold my skills into them. All I had to do, was take my portfolio to interviews showing my previous work.

This strategy worked, I worked for huge names and each job I next went for I was tweak the wording, or skills emphasis of my previous roles to match what I was applying for.

I had one role in a Marketing and Comms department at a college, there I discovered I loved writing and was good at it, so I starting saving examples of my writing (website, prospectuses, intranet, press releases) for my portfolio. When the job was coming to an end, a permanent job at a PR agency came up. I'd only written three press releases at the college, but thought sod it, I will apply.

I when back on my CV to my marketing jobs and put more emphasis on my writing and mentioned the press releases and even on my IT background I mentioned writing technical documentation. I had to write a press release as part of the recruitment process, and got the job!

Fast forward to now, I've moved away from pure marketing and work in communications, mainly Internal Comms. My current job is a two year fixed term contract, as an Internal Comms Manager within the.... (get this).... massive IT department!

Sorry I blathered for so long, but I guess I'm trying to say, from RTFT you possibly already have the skills to move into a different job. You just need to be cunning in how you word your CV and application. Getting contracts may help you get a foot in somewhere good too. Make sure you have a portfolio, maybe even a website.

Also, I have a skills matrix at the top of my CV, basically a table of my main competencies, things like copywriting, social media campaigns, artworking, project / campaign management. It helps the hiring manager see at a glance the skills I have and this matrix flexes to include my skills that are most relevant to the job I'm going for. I've been in new career 10 years now and I'm 41. Glad I did it.

More than happy to take a look at your CV, with your personal details removed if you like? PM if so.

swirlette · 03/03/2019 10:47

I'm in a similar place mid 30s too - giving myself another two years in marketing to save up and do a masters. Have a look at the careershifters and escape the city websites, and also I found that the career finder on prospects gave me a few ideas!

Aberforthsgoat · 03/03/2019 12:19

Interesting @ichwill I guess my problem is that I don’t know what I want to side step into at the moment because I’m not really enjoying the aspects of my work which are profitable if that makes sense. Which is what’s let me to wonder about retraining. Sounds like it was a good move for you!

@swirlette thanks that’s really useful! Sounds like you have a solid plan

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