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To wonder how people can afford to foster

90 replies

Janepear · 02/03/2019 16:56

The allowance is £140 pw and obviously you can’t work. We are just trying to work out how we could afford to do it. Anyone any ideas?

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Janepear · 02/03/2019 17:20

Thanks Downwent that’s interesting to know. I will look into that! My child is at school Where but the LA said they place children younger than the youngest child in your family with you.

Whatwereyouthinking how can you foster if you would struggle on the allowance? If I was a millionaire I would love to do it. I think Foster Carers do an amazing job.

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Youmadorwhat · 02/03/2019 17:20

The UK baffles me on things like this. In Ireland they get a minimum of 350 per week and then the child allowance of 140 per month afaik

Youmadorwhat · 02/03/2019 17:21

And that’s per child

SpiritedLondon · 02/03/2019 17:24

Is it standard across all LAs though or just your local one? My colleague fostered through a private agency and was paid a lot of money ( £250 per child per week) - to the point where I would suspect some foster parents were not doing it for the love of it.

Shantotto · 02/03/2019 17:26

Of course fostering isn’t about money but if you don’t get any money to do it how are you supposed to survive?

chiefmummabear · 02/03/2019 17:26

It must vary a lot between different LAs, as my youngest is three and I have had younger and much older children placed with me. Fostering is amazing OP, but not for the faint hearted!

OlennasWimple · 02/03/2019 17:26

OP - just a thought. There's a fostering board on MN - you might want to report your thread to MNHQ and ask for it to be moved? Just so that you get some more expert replies Smile

NannyRed · 02/03/2019 17:29

It’s fostering. It’s not a job. It’s not an alternative career, it’s not a money maker.
I don’t think fostering is for you if you’re concentrating on the money. (Seriously)

Janepear · 02/03/2019 17:29

It’s our LA. Looked at those close to use and their allowance is a little more. We’ve wanted to do this for years and now our youngest dc is a bit older we thought it would be a great time. I currently work part time and earn more than this, we are now seriously worried we won’t be able to do it. It’s such an important and responsible thing to do but these allowances just don’t reflect that I don’t think.

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ASurfeitOfDuncans · 02/03/2019 17:34

It must be nice to not have to worry about paying bills and buying food and paying rent to be able to take on serious commitments just for love.

Janepear · 02/03/2019 17:37

Asurf that’s what made me wonder who can afford to foster? I feel really disappointed. When they sent all the info out they said they’d forgotten to include the allowance sheet and we got really excited we were going to finally do it then it arrived today.......

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notacooldad · 02/03/2019 17:38

Fostering isn't about the money!
Sadly , for some of the foster carers we come across at work it is only about the money!!!
There are many amazing foster carers, some do emergency placements only, some do short breaks others do long term some have entered a private fostering agreement and hats off to the vast majority of them especially those that have taken on challenging cases but not all of them are so altruistic.

Windingstreams · 02/03/2019 17:41

Are you sure you’re reading it correctly. This is from my local council’s website.

‘from 1 October 2018, foster carers can expect to receive up to £479 a week for each child they care for. A foster carer on a specialist therapeutic scheme will receive up to £600 a week.’

What’s your council?

Also, all children are placed through the council - when they have to use an IFA it costs them loads more and is detrimental to foster caring / children in general.

Janepear · 02/03/2019 17:41

Agree in theory nota but how can we afford to do it? How do your Foster Carers do it? Do you work for a LA?

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ComeMonday · 02/03/2019 17:42

@NannyRed are you actually reading the thread? You seem weirdly determined to misunderstand. OP is not looking to get rich on this but it’s a fact that children cost money, especially if you are restricted from working. Do you really not understand how someone could be full of all the love in the world and be a fantastic foster parent but also worry about providing for their family (including any foster children)?

Windingstreams · 02/03/2019 17:43

Allowances are paid in addition to a weekly fee as far as I know

EmeraldShamrock · 02/03/2019 17:44

In Ireland they get a minimum of 350 per week and then the child allowance of 140 per month afaik
It is like that with most benefits in the UK. One parent here family is approx 245euro a week, afaik it is 65+60=125 in the UK. Our childrens allowance is 140, UK is approx 80 a month.
A single jobseekers on benefits here will get 186 a week whereas in the UK it is only 65.
Pound to euro but still I don't know how some people get by.

notacooldad · 02/03/2019 17:46

I work for children's services.
Maybe an option for you is to keep on working but have emergency placements. These are children who need to be removed from their parents immediately or their current foster placement has broken down.

Janepear · 02/03/2019 17:47

Thanks comemonday

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TraLaLaaaaa · 02/03/2019 17:48

Is that £140 a week total? My LA pay a reward element to the foster carer (about £90p/w at first, more with training/experience) plus an allowance to cover the costs for the child (clothes, shoes, toys, etc. and also to cover your increased household bills such as food, electric, etc.).

I see fostering as a job. The hardest job I've done, that's for sure. That doesn't make me heartless or mercenary. You can't work if you have a young child who isn't at school yet. Apart from childcare you have to attend meetings, facilitate contact, attend training, etc. And even if a child is at a school, there are still meetings and training that you have to attend, and sometimes children who are school-refusers, excluded, skip school. I know some foster carers who work, but they tend to be ones who have older children who are with them long term and are settled in school, etc. Under 5s, the assumption is that you don't work. So, yes, you don't foster for the money, but of course you have to take money into consideration. The only reason I could afford to do it was because I don't have a mortgage. Rubbish really. Incredibly valuable and important job, working with our most vulnerable children but incredibly undervalued both financially and professionally.

Youmadorwhat · 02/03/2019 17:50

@EmeraldShamrock yes and child benefit here is 140 per child... in uk it’s 80 for 1 and 130 for two 😮

Shockers · 02/03/2019 17:50

We used to foster for our local authority. It wasn’t classed as paid work; the allowance we received was for expenses. It was about £40 per week, per child at the time (18 years ago).

Janepear · 02/03/2019 17:54

Well, my dh has done the sums and we just can’t afford it. I am so upset.

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TraLaLaaaaa · 02/03/2019 17:57

That's a shame Janepear.

Grasshopper123 · 02/03/2019 17:59

There should be two payments for each child - one to cover the costs of caring for the child and one 'salary' payment...the more training you do the better this payment becomes.

LA's also provide Christmas/ holiday and birthday allowance per child and can provide a clothing allowance. There is also money available to support children with some extra curricular activities through the extra educational money that is allocated to each child.

Agencies definitely pay a lot more per child - and so they should given they can charge LA's thousands of pounds a week to place a child in their care!

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