Ex in anger management. Wants access to our son.

[GordonMieke]

I have a little DS. He's a handful of months old.

Separated from exP as he was horrid to me. Used me as childcare. Not a nice person.

He wants access to our son. I've said fine as long as I'm there. He has a short temper, is in anger management, and gets angry when DS cries. Thought it was ok to just let a 2 month old 'cry it out' because he's learn better that way. Etc etc.

He's ebf at the moment but will be weaned fairly soon and he will want access on his own.

Can I prevent that based on the above? I am in no way trying to prevent him from having a relationship with his father. I'm genuinely not comfortable with him being alone with him.

Yes, I was asking about weaning as if you continue to bf then that will be in your favour if he's trying to demand unsupervised access. He is dangerous, you need to try and do everything to prevent him getting access. I was not trying to be critical about feeding choices at all!

Write down everything that he has done and raise it with somebody in a position of trust - perhaps your GP or Social Services? He also shook your baby, that needs to be reported. Write down everything which shows how dangerous he is and hopefully that will be enough to keep him away.