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To bring this up with my BF?

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PrincessPlummy · 26/02/2019 20:55

I've been with my BF for just over a year and things are generally really good. We are very much in love and he enriches my life greatly. However we've had issues in the past we me feeling a bit disconnected from him. He's quite disorganised so would sometimes cancel last minute, also we agreed to see each other about 3 times a week and it often ended up being less because of scheduling issues (usually down to him - I try and be organised and ensure I make time for him).

A couple of weeks in the past month we've only ended up seeing each other twice over the week. He's a student who's only at uni 3 days a week, and the times when he's occupied are mostly gaming with other friends online. AIBU to bring up that this hurts my feelings, and that I think he should make an effort to make enough time to see me 3 times in a week? It wouldn't bother me if he was really busy with work, or if he was seeing friends (then I could come sometimes too!) But it makes me feel a bit unloved

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flimbo1212 · 26/02/2019 21:00

It depends on you Princessplummy, if it doesnt suit you, then yes you should say something

Some of us might feel different, but its about your relationship - and whether its right for you

For me, when i met my now husband, we only spent weekends together. This went on for four years, and we were both very happy with that arrangement, but its not for everyone

PrincessPlummy · 26/02/2019 21:57

I think I will say something, but not as a criticism of him, just as an expression of how I feel

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flimbo1212 · 26/02/2019 22:09

I think you should Princess - it is clearly bothering you

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