To ask how to deal with this?

[Luckything50]

I have some video of my dds friend (13) appearing to snort a white powder whilst others look on and say ‘save me a bit.’ I’m sure this kind of dilemma has been done to death but would appreciate advice. I know mum, she’s lovely but we’re not close. How could I get her this info without having to send it to her myself due the complications that might bring? Or should I even try? Dd doesn’t know I’ve seen it and is, perhaps selfishly, my main reason for taking this further. Girl in question is (appears?) usually sensible and mature for her age. Any advice welcome, especially from anybody been through similar. Thanks.

Absolutely let the other mom know.

You would want her to do the same if she saw your DD on a video, and you want to keep your daughter safe so making sure she's not involved with kids with drugs (or whatever else the powder was) is an absolute must!

Wow that's a whole different level to what I was expecting when opening this thread. I'd send the video to the mum stating you became aware of it and wanted to let her know. It's up to her to take action but as the parent I'd want to know so I could ascertain what the fuck they were thinking!

Do your children attend the same school? Could you go through them for advice?