I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. This weekend just gone he suggested I do some squats. It started out jokingly and then he brought up the squats again then he suggested lunges as “surely you can cope with lunges?” - he then looked at me very seriously.
I’m currently an Australian size 8 and I’m 57kg. I’m short but I’m in the healthy BMI range.
The history of this is I’ve been very unwell lately and doctors and specialists are trying to work out what is wrong with me.
I’m too tired to exercise and I’m often sick and taking a lot of painkillers.
I’m thinking that he isn’t happy with my body, even though I’ve seen pictures of his ex-wife and she looks to be a size 16.
The only comment he makes about my body is that he loves my tits (yes, he says tits).
Is this a red flag or am I oversensitive to this? I am very insecure about my weight and his comments have bothered me.