Some ppl also have a funny idea about how much of a benefit it is for a forces family whose main earner works away. Unless deployed, there is no extra pay. So, for eg, they could be working in a different city all week every week, also over some weekends depending on the job, for no extra pay. And when on deployment, a great deal of that is often spent by the forces partner, eating out, drinking, sightseeing (because it would be a shame to miss out on the sights while they're there
) and hotel rooms (because staying onboard in a small cabin feels like a prison, so I'm told).... So not that much benefit, certainly not enough to compensate for a parent being away for 9 months, in the eyes of the DC.
Thanks to those who have made sensible, helpful suggestions based on the information given. A lot of ppl just seem to like pointing out that if they can do it, anyone can... Or haven't actually taken onboard what I said - as stated, I am in a different country, with DC in primary school, in an unfamiliar education system, and on doing some research, found I would need to have a certain certificate in order to be a TA, so there's no point telling me you don't need one in the UK /Ireland... When in the UK, a TA position I considered would not have paid, after taking travel and childcare out. That was a little while back.
Apologies if I hadn't answered any other q, I haven't read to the end, as the thread seems to have moved off somewhat from the original q.