Pregnant WWYD

[Thataboutsomesitup]

I have just found out I am in early pregnancy stages. It was an unexpected one night stand with a friend. I already have kids, separated for a year from exh2b. Although not impossible, it would be medically inadvisable to go through with the pregnancy. Aside from that, I don't want any more DC. Friend has no DC and is with someone. WWYD... do you think I should tell him about the pregnancy knowing my intention is to end it? My view is that he would agree but of course I can't be 100% about that without speaking to him. I don't see me going through with it either way.

I think it was right to tell him. I would have. He needs to know that he’s part of something with pretty serious implications either way.

Fudge yes, I never ever thought I'd be having a termination but I have 3 children, I am on my own with some quite limiting health conditions, pregnancy would put my body through untold and irreversible damage. He is with someone, I have no wish to damage his relationship or hurt him. After all he is my friend and I do care about him. I think this really is the best decision for everyone. I will never be in this situation again.