FIL is currently living in private rental with stairs. He has struggled for years to pay rent as it's much more than his housing benefit and he only gets basic state pension. He therefore, can't afford meals on wheels and struggles to pay bills/food. He's in his 70's. He has applied to get on LA/Housing association list. We were hoping for some sort of retirement flat - sheltered housing. He's had some health problems including arthritis and gastro problems which has been included on his application.
Since applying he has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He does not have a terminal diagnosis yet. They need to do more tests to find out what type of pancreatic cancer it is.
Someone from Housing is coming round to assess him soon. I think that he should disclose his cancer diagnosis to the Housing people as I think he will get higher priority due to his cancer diagnosis.
FIL and his FIL's brother have said not to disclose this as Housing will just write him off, thinking he will die soon, so the Housing people will think there is no point in putting him on the waiting list !
AIBU to think that this is not the case and that :-
- he may get higher priority if he discloses his cancer diagnosis
- that they won't refuse to put him on the list just because he has a cancer diagnosis ?