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username0421 · 14/02/2019 17:39

AIBU to be a bit annoyed that ex can take the whole day off for Valentine's Day to be with his girlfriend and new baby, when he couldn't be bothered to take any time off work and help me when DS broke his arm?

I know I sort of am, I understand that he has his own life now and can do what he wants, but My ex likes to do the typical how much he cares about DS, that he is his world and he thinks about him every second of every day etc when in reality he does FA. He knew all of his appointment dates and times, all update info and still did nothing 'because of work' even tho he claims he can get out of work easily if needed - and he'd want to know if something happened to DS and he'd be there straight away... but when it came to it he couldn't be bothered 🤷‍♀️

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EwItsAHooman · 14/02/2019 18:07

Use it as a reminder of why he is your ex and consider yourself well rid of him Grin

username0421 · 14/02/2019 18:19

@EwItsAHooman I know I'm reminded of it daily 🙄🙄

It just bugs me so much that he goes round telling everybody all the details about DS' life and how involved he is and what a good dad he is when it's me he gets the info from and just passes it on!! Several times I've asked him to look after DS for a couple of hours in the evening so I can do important things eg parents evening and he just says no! Grrrrr he does fuck all he shouldn't even call himself his parent Angry

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