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To have walked out?

31 replies

AcaiSmoothie · 12/02/2019 12:27

I walked out of a hair appointment today, just wondering if I over reacted because I got off to a bad start first this morning and was feeling a bit grumpy.

I've never used this hairdresser before so was a new client, arrived just before my appointment time and the hairdresser was on the phone whilst doing someone else's hair. She didnt acknowledge me at all when I walked in at all, finished her conversation and then barked at me "By the way I'm running late if you're in a rush". No hello, no apology or explanation - she didn't even take my coat or offer a drink.

I wasn't in a rush so sat down to wait and it became clear that she was only halfway through the client's hair who she was working on, I estimated it would be at least 40 mins before she was ready for me. She made no effort to speak to me, offer that I could come back a bit later or any solution, just carried on ignoring me and gossiping/ ranting to her existing client.

I sat for about 20 minutes then got my stuff and left. I actually felt quite upset - probably annoyed at myself for not saying anything to her. I understand things go wrong and people run late etc. I wasnt even bothered about the wait time, just the rude manner and lack of apology.

Would you have said anything or waited it out? Bit pissed off, I've been cutting my own hair for the past two years and this was meant to be a treat. Was going to leave a crap review, is that too far?

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AcaiSmoothie · 12/02/2019 23:30

Glad everyone agrees. Sometimes I have trouble standing up for myself and I felt awkward just leaving like that, even though she was in the wrong. She didn't even say anything when I got up and lifted my stuff!

I'll be booking an appointment elsewhere soon, and will leave a review on her page so she knows why I left!

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StillCoughingandLaughing · 12/02/2019 23:37

No point adding drama by saying anything or stewing on it then leaving a bad review, just find a nicer hairdresser.

How is a bad review ‘adding drama’? The OP was unsatisfied with the service she was offered and is going to say so - no ‘drama’ involved.

DorothyZbornak · 13/02/2019 00:17

You absolutely did the right thing. I did similar myself before after sitting there like a complete idiot for 35 minutes.
I left a review on their Facebook page and the salon owner (who I'd had the appointment with) started threatening me!
Lots of other people came along with similar stories to mine.

Salon has closed down since. I'm not surprised.

StrangeLookingParasite · 13/02/2019 08:29

No point adding drama by saying anything or stewing on it then leaving a bad review, just find a nicer hairdresser.

The point is to warn other poor people that this salon is a trainwreck.

VietnameseCrispyFish · 13/02/2019 11:23

How is a bad review ‘adding drama’? The OP was unsatisfied with the service she was offered and is going to say so - no ‘drama’ involved.

Some people are very scared of conflict or standing up for themselves and try and paint the ‘easy’ (less frightening route’ as some kind of casual ‘ah it’s too much hassle’ choice. With the implication that anyone who does stand up for themselves is ‘adding drama’, because they just can’t envisage ever being able to stomach doing that themselves.

AcaiSmoothie · 13/02/2019 20:17

I don't think that leaving a factual review is being dramatic. If I had read a review like this before booking I could have saved myself time by not going in the first place - surely that's the point?

Regardless, he salon doesn't seem to have much online presence at all so I don't see it making a difference. I do hope she sees it though.

Thanks all for replies, good to know I wasn't being oversensitive.

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