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Am I being overly paranoid? DS 9mo temp 35.4ish

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Dera1234 · 11/02/2019 06:18

DS 9mo has been quite poorly recently with what the hospital said was a viral infection.

We took him two weeks ago to GP out of hours when I noticed that he hadn't had a wet nappy for 8 hours. I was going by the book when I decided to call as he seemed his normal self but had been a bit off his milk. The doctor was unconcerned but said he may just bee coming down with something.

Sure enough a few days later and he's hit by a super snotty nose with coughing and sneezing. Cue Tuesday night where his temperature spikes a bit. Gave him some Calpol and put him to bed. The next day he was really not himself and his temperature went up to almost 40 degrees and he was slow to respond to Calpol, but that did eventually bring it down. O was worried, and my Mum advised if he wasnt right on his 12:30 feed to phone 111.

I decided to wake him at 1ish when he hadn't woken for his feed as I wanted to keep his fluids up. When he woke he was burning up, temperature sky high again, he was shivering (think I cooled him down too fast), flinching when I touched his skin, screaming, struggling to breathe due to being blocked up, and just generally really scaring me. I panicked and phoned 111 as something felt really off. They really focused on the breathing (which is wasn't too concerned about as he wasn't sucking in below his ribs etc) but they seemed worried due to him having choked on a bit of bath water whilst trying to eat a toy and were adamant I should take him to a and e after another call back as I'd queried whether he could get an out of hours appointment so he could be seen quicker. By the time the nurse had called back he was right as rain, back to his normal self. But we went anyway as she wanted to be safe.

They triaged him quickly and his vitals were fine and we waited for a few hours. A doctor came and didnt even look at him, just said he had a viral infection and to give Calpol/ibuprofen for up to 5 days. He's also had vomiting and diarrhoea. But the vomiting stopped two days ago and the diarrhoea has just become more frequent, yet softer stools.

He has improved, to the point we weren't giving him Calpol yesterday, just cough medicine, vapour rub, saline drops etc to help relieve the cold.

During his night time feed I noticed he hadn't weed again but wasn't overly concerned, however his skin on his forehead felt really cold. Took his temp and it was around 35.4 (ear temp). He was also crying everytime we moved him to change nappy etc, and he appeared drowsy (he normally wakes up to the point of smiling and laughing on night feeds).

I've just been up with him again, which is usual for him. But his temp is still between 35 and 35.8. He's wee'd, but not as full nappy as usual. Still crying (think it sounds worse as quite high pitched with him losing his voice) and drowsy.

He's gone back to bed and I've turned the heating up.

I suppose my AIBU is, should I be worried? I have form for worrying too much, and am a bit of a hyperchondriac but like to think I'm level headed too, to a point.

I googled low temp in babies and it's all meningitis and sepsis. Which doesn't help my worry. I can't see a rash. His hands and feet are a bit cold but that's quite normal for him (takes after me). He's drinking his milk, just not as much. He's been totally uninterested in solids and has just been on milk the last few days as he's been too unwell to sit in a highchair and eat.

I'll probably book a doctor's appointment in the morning, to err on the side of caution, but I feel like they'll see he's been to out of hours and a and e in the last two weeks and think I'm over reacting. Which I understand isn't important, DS health is. And I will take him regardless.

I just wondered if I was being totally paranoid, or if this is worthy of worrying about?

(Please don't flame me, I'm not asking if I should take him to the doctor's or not, just more AIBU to be worrying, again?).

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SubparOwl · 11/02/2019 06:22

You need to get him seen to rule out sepsis which usually follows a prolonged infection and does not always present with a rash.

Correct procedure would be to dial 999 immediately, stating suspected sepsis.

maddening · 11/02/2019 06:37

Agree with pp get him checked

ValleyoftheHorses · 11/02/2019 06:48

I’ve always gone with my gut with DS and erred on the side of getting him checked. I never worry about wasting Drs time with DS- I know they’d always rather see a child than not.
Go get him checked for peace of mind.

PrancingP · 11/02/2019 06:50

Agree with 999 suspected sepsis.

My granny died of it last September because we didn't realise it can present without a rash, she had a low temp and feeling crap after an infection in her leg.

Please ring for an ambulance!

concernedforthefuture · 11/02/2019 06:52

Get him checked out. A low temp can be a sign of sepsis.

PoliticalBiscuit · 11/02/2019 06:52

Yes I'd also phone 999 - lethargic, low temp, cold limbs.

He'll be ok but it's the best thing to do.

Phone charger, water, change clothes - you and baby, nappies, biscuits, toys.

Oysterbabe · 11/02/2019 06:53

At the very least I'd call 111 again.

Haggisfish · 11/02/2019 06:53

I agree with others.

PoliticalBiscuit · 11/02/2019 06:54

List things to take with you -

Phone charger, water, change clothes - you and baby, nappies, biscuits, toys. Pad of paper and pen. Purse.

KTD27 · 11/02/2019 06:58

Yes go. Get him checked. This happened to my 7mo last week a sky high temp and a viral illness next day was extremely low 35 temp. Now she was very well eating drinking interacting but I still went in and the hospital were very keen to monitor her. Your little one sounds poorly you should definitely go in ASAP.

LilQuim · 11/02/2019 07:23

As others have said, you're not being overly concerned & you know your baby. Get him seen ASAP. Good luck!

Greywalls12 · 11/02/2019 08:33

Did you go op?

erja · 11/02/2019 10:26

I'd say definitely A&E. I've had similar problems with DS lately but his symptoms weren't as bad as you've explained. I hope he's okay, it's so worrying! Thanks

Dera1234 · 11/02/2019 10:51

Thanks everyone. I called 111 and they seemed unconcerned. They advised to just keep an eye on him. And of course, this morning he's right as rain better than he's been in what seems like a fair while. His temp is still around 36.0 but as he's happy playing, drinking milk and his hands and feet are warm (and his skin) I'm not too concerned anymore. Thanks for all your advice, and if he goes downhill at all, I'll be straight to the doctor's/hospital

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