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Should I take this rude reply further?

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livingontheedgeee · 09/02/2019 23:12

I recently applied for a job working as a PA to the CEO in a local company.

I wasn't selected for an interview which is fair enough but I did ask the company for some feedback on my application so I could adjust my CV to better showcase my skills.

The response I received from the HR Director was frankly quite shocking - so much it actually upset me.

To paraphrase, he suggested if they offered me the role they would run the risk of needing to re-advertise after 6 months. He told me I must believe their system of selection was flawed and that I was clearly bitter about the fact I wasn't taken any further.

I was very polite in my email and just wanted critical feedback - something which is commonplace when applying for a job. His grammar and spelling was atrocious and after reading the entire email, I was shocked at having been spoken to like I was shit on his shoe.

Should I make a formal complaint or do you think it might just come across as sour grapes and I should let it go?

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livingontheedgeee · 13/02/2019 16:58

But I am afraid the situation is not exactly as it's been recounted here...

Andy you'd know? Because? Gosh, some people astonish me.

Of course the whole story is exactly what happened.

Jeez.

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ItRubsTheLotionOnItsSkin · 13/02/2019 17:01

If you're going to put it on Twitter, surely you can post the response here? "I paraphrase" does make people think the whole story may be slightly different to your interpretation.

I also think you shouldn't ask for feedback on your CV after an application, after an interview, yes.

Magenta82 · 13/02/2019 17:49

I work for a relatively small company in a small town and had over 150 applicants for one entry level role I just advertised. Going through the CVs took a huge amount of time.

I always give feedback after an interview, if someone asked why they were not selected I would find it strange, but probably try to give them a tactful but honest answer.

A lot of the CVs I rejected were from people with lots of experience because it is an entry level job and it is likely that I would have to advertise again in six months because in my experience people with similar CVs have got bored and left for something more interesting.

OVienna · 14/02/2019 18:10

Then why won't you post the exact email, like many people have said?

You posted yours.

OVienna · 14/02/2019 18:11

Why 'paraphrase'?

OVienna · 14/02/2019 18:15

And of course I wouldn't know- "I am afraid" , "I suspect" - whatever. I could have been more precise about the language. So could you with the email the guy supposedly sent.

It's not like I'm the only poster who raised this.

I understand you want to vent. But if this really happened as you said the guy is clearly a total nut job. It's hard to believe someone wouldn't have picked up on that before he was allowed to respond to candidates. If he has - go for it. As I said - the CEO would want to know.

Habadabadoo · 14/02/2019 18:29

I would send the most polite, nice email I could and cc the CEO in. Sweetest revenge Grin

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