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To think I shouldn't be disturbed on my lunch break??

85 replies

RoastOx · 07/02/2019 13:54

I am a supervisor in an office and to be honest, I'm getting really fucked off with people coming into my room during my lunch and saying "I know you're on lunch but can I ask you this question that is not in the slightest bit urgent"

I don't disturb anyone else's lunch break.

We dont have a staff room so I am limited to where I can go. If I did go out to lunch, what would they do? Track me down to ask me questions??

I am going to have to start leaving the office every fucking lunch time aren't I.

Sorry, it's just that I have been disturned 4 times in an hour whilst in the middle of eating a sandwich.

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Buddytheelf85 · 07/02/2019 16:36

I don’t really get this, I think we must work in very different environments. I have zero expectation of an uninterrupted lunch break - let alone a lunch hour - unless I go out, and going out for longer than it takes to grab a sandwich wouldn’t really be acceptable if you had lots of work to do (well it might but you’d then have to stay later to do the work). If anyone said ‘go away I’m on my lunch break’ they’d be laughed out!

DarlingNikita · 07/02/2019 16:40

Your workplace sounds a bit horrid, TBH, Buddy.

Mayrhofen · 07/02/2019 16:42

Do Not Disturb Sign

adaline · 07/02/2019 16:46

I have zero expectation of an uninterrupted lunch break - let alone a lunch hour - unless I go out, and going out for longer than it takes to grab a sandwich wouldn’t really be acceptable

You're entitled to a lunch break by law. If you want to work through yours, good for you, but don't expect other people to do the same!

I'm so glad I work somewhere that reinforces break times. We have to take 30 minutes lunch, even if you just sit in the staffroom and listen to music or read a book!

m0therofdragons · 07/02/2019 16:50

I have an open policy so just because I'm eating lunch, if I'm doing it at my desk then my lunch break is interruptible. If I want actually have a break I go out of the office for a walk/coffee shop/ nearby park. Everywhere I've worked has been like this. If you choose to eat at your desk then people assume you're approachable. I work in a great atmosphere with senior members of staff. I always encourage my team to take a break away from the office.

HunterHearstHelmsley · 07/02/2019 16:58

This used to happen to me a lot. I only had 30 minutes break.

Every time I was interrupted within in the first 20 minutes, I "restarted" my break (the law says one uninterrupted 20 minute break). After doing this for about a week people stopped hassling me. Funny that

spinabifidamom · 07/02/2019 18:00

“I’m not available over lunch”. Persist until the message is understood clearly. Hang a sign up on the door saying you are on a lunch break or something.

Iggly · 07/02/2019 18:01

I just tell people I’m eating and I’ll find them when I’m done.

SeamstressfromTreacleMineRoad · 07/02/2019 20:38

Every time I was interrupted within in the first 20 minutes, I "restarted" my break (the law says one uninterrupted 20 minute break). After doing this for about a week people stopped hassling me. Funny that

Why did no one think to tell me this before I retired...! Grin

Lazypuppy · 07/02/2019 21:03

You need to make it clear.

I eat my lunch and my desk and carry on work conversations as needed.

I know not everyone is happy with that,so tell them.otherwise because you are in the office they may be think you don't mind

MidniteScribbler · 07/02/2019 21:07

Don't ever become a teacher.

LeadMeToTheChocolate · 07/02/2019 21:09

I’m a teacher...what’s lunch?

SouthernComforts · 07/02/2019 21:12

Yep this is annoying as fuck, the hanger is real.

I sometimes eat my lunch in my car for 5 minutes peace.

Solina · 07/02/2019 21:31

During summer I sometimes go outside for my lunch break and sit in the park and it is nice as no one else ever goes there so wont see anyone from work. Other times I either stay in the office and put on huge headphones and watch netflix to show people I am not going to listen or I find an indoor space away from the office if I want to be alone.

The very rare time I get interrupted for work I just see how long it took to sort and add it on my break. Or not take lunch at all and leave early instead.

Graphista · 07/02/2019 22:01

Yet more evidence of the erosions of workers rights and how little employees are respected.

When employers of X amount of employees had to provide a space for employees to eat separate from their work space it was better.

I know it's still a requirement in some industries due to health & safety reg's and the nature of the job but I'm old enough to remember being told off for eating at my desk as it was against health & safety not to get that MENTAL space from work.

Definitely make it clear to those interrupting to pack it in and a "do not disturb sign" though really it shouldn't be necessary.

I strongly suspect employers not giving employees a way to have a proper break is counter productive too (as are many things that are seen as only of benefit to the employee), properly "recharged" employees will feel more valued, work more efficiently, won't be distracted by feelings of irritation and resentment (as op has been) and won't fall out with each other over such issues.

And in some roles could even prove dangerous (for employee or clients/customers).

I think all work places of X size should be required to have a proper break room (I say of X size as eh v small shops would struggle to provide this). It would also solve all the disputes over smelly/noisy eating as it would keep the smells and noise out of the work area.

"Can't understand why anyone would want to sit at their desk through lunch." As per pps not much before your post not all workplaces provide a break area or have somewhere warm, dry & free to eat nearby.

Maybe we should campaign for shared premises to be provided for all employees in that location for places like industrial estates? Just one decent sized room (I'm thinking of those "temp" hugs we used to use at school see attached pic) could easily provide enough space on a rota schedule for many employees.

"TBH I do think if you're at your desk you're fair game."why?

"then your lunch breaks should be paid if you must remain on site, surely?" Agreed but then employees no longer matter.

Breaks are suppose to be protected and enforced, I was always someone who'd lose track of time when I was busy and not realise I'd been working X hours so in certain jobs other employees or even the bosses would remind me I was due a break.

I did have one arsehole boss when I was younger (early 20's) and much less assertive or even aware of my rights, who wouldn't even let me go for a pee one day! It was height of a hot summer, no a/c in a shop walled with bloody Windows and equipment that heated it up too. We were really busy and I'd been working 6 hours without a break, on my feet constantly and I ended up passing out - then he panicked!

He wasn't the "big boss" but a supervisor and it was big boss's day off. He was then dreading me telling the big boss what had happened when he came back. I was chatting to my mum that night and she gave me the courage to tell the big boss who did indeed give the supervisor an almighty bollocking (they were in a closed office but we ended up hearing it because supervisor argued back quite loudly and big boss had to raise HIS voice get through to numpty supervisor! Twat!)

Graphista · 07/02/2019 22:02

As always forgot pic!

To think I shouldn't be disturbed on my lunch break??
Ollivander84 · 07/02/2019 22:38

Someone tried to talk to me on my 15 min break the other day - I had 2 mins left to finish making my drink and log back on, they work in a different department. I felt really rude but I was "my breaks are timed, sorry!"
Not losing my commission over someone talking to me and making me late Grin

snitzelvoncrumb · 07/02/2019 23:39

I went and hid in a store room when I was an office junior. I was always asked to do something on my lunch break, then I would get in trouble for taking the time I missed at the end.

pourmeanotherglass · 08/02/2019 08:01

My workplace is much more like Buddy describes - actually a lovely team, but I normally eat lunch at my desk and carry on working as I'm just too busy not to. I do have short chats with different people at the kettle or a 10 minute walk to buy lunch if I didn't make it. Im surpised how many people on this thread have an actual lunch hour.

Ezzie29 · 08/02/2019 08:48

I wondered why I randomly dreamed about discovering a hidden lunch break room at work and then I remembered this thread!

RoastOx · 08/02/2019 09:25

Can you put some headphones in

This doesn't work!

I need to be harsher but I don't like to do that. I think I will do the whole "is it urgent" today.

Saying that, it is Friday so I may pop to the local Thai cafe for a panang curry in peace!

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RhubarbCrumbled · 08/02/2019 09:31

I eat while I work so don't mind being disturbed but then I got out for a LONG walk as my actual lunchbreak. Even on a nasty day I still move away from my desk and have a little wander.

leahtalbot96 · 08/02/2019 09:56

I work from home. Between 12-pm and 1, I deliberately close my laptop and grab a sandwich to eat. When I am on the go, I take a Snickers bar or a sandwich with me for lunch.

BreevandercampLGJ · 08/02/2019 10:09

Lack of planning on your part, does not constitute an emergency on mine.

Please come back when my break is over.

CrumblyMumbly · 08/02/2019 10:56

I'm afraid this will always happen. you could try to informally raise it at the end of a meeting. The general consensus will be...."that's what she's paid for" (said in a bitchy whisper behind your back!) You're lucky you aren't called on evenings and weekends like I was! I tended to go out at lunchtime for a break and to recharge my patience! As long as they know you are there, you are fair game!

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