I consider myself to be quite a stoical sort of guy...I try and make the best of situations..".one door closes ..another opens".
Had a spinal fusion in 1994 that cost me my professional career and became a househusband..full time.
Two great daughters 27 and 22....enjoyed the experience but a part of me always missed my health professional career.
Daily pain from spinal surgery but... hid it well .
So..when I advise ...NEVER HAVE A HAEMORRHOIDECTOMY UNLESS ABSOLUTELY THE LAST RESORT.......it is because I believe it is solid advice.
Had mine on 10/9/2018....two haemorrhoids surgically removed.
Despite lactulose daily.painkillers etc.....it is excruciating still to poo.
Admitted to hospital 8 weeks post op after falling asleep mid afternoon and waking up at 6.15 p.m feeling" disorientated and detached"
Diagnosed as exhaustion from pain and lack of sleep for 8 weeks.
At this stage I have not a shred of confidence that this will ever improve......I am far worse post op than pre- op......so you make your choices.no guarantees and live with the consequences.
The general advice it that most patients will feel better 2 weeks post -op and recover in two months.
Hope this helps.
Felt I had to give the other side of the story....when you don't recover ..