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To ask for a guide as to what's genuinely worth spending a bit more on?

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TattyOldbit · 06/02/2019 21:02

My default setting is cheapest, but I also get that cheapest often costs more in the long run.

OP posts:
BadLad · 07/02/2019 15:00

Down coat, mine still looks as good as new.

Yep. Cheap ones look shit quite quickly.

Also wine and shoes.

FloofyDoof · 07/02/2019 15:11

Bedding - 100% cotton sheets and covers, decent pillows, good duvets.
Shoes - I have back and knee issues, if I wear uncomfortable shoes I know about it for days. My DMs are worth every penny for me.
Meat - I'd rather eat met less often but have nicer meat.
Leggings - I think you can always tell the cheaper ones.

I try and buy as much of those things as possible on offer anyway, so that I can afford the better stuff.

Skincare I would say is not always worth spending more on, I use some cheaper stuff and some more expensive stuff. Some cheaper brands make great products (superdrug for instance make a lovely hot cloth cleanser), some expensive brands are crap with tonnes of fragrance and no real active ingredients in pretty shiny packaging. If you are going to spend a little more then it's definitely worth researching exactly what your skin needs, and reading a few reviews from different places before buying.

Meretricious · 07/02/2019 15:17

A really good winte4 coat that looked smart, was warm and wTerproog with a hood and covered my bum. Cost £300. It’s lasted 5 winters and made such a huge difference. Being warm is lovely.

I live in the north.

Lllot5 · 07/02/2019 15:36

Coffee; Heinz baked beans; sun protection; washing up liquid; mincemeat; bras; chocolate and good haircut

nornironrock · 07/02/2019 15:49

Footwear, but purpose is as important as price. You can spend £150 on a pair of running shoes, but if you use them for tennis, they aren't going to do the job.

Car tyres. The only bit of your car that actually touches the road.... say no more.

Jeans.

One of my hobbies is cycling. The saying goes that you want everything to be cheap, light and strong. The reality is that you can have any two of those. So, spend the extra.

Bluelady · 07/02/2019 15:56

A haircut. It's on display all day, every day.

outpinked · 07/02/2019 15:56

Agreed with shoes, my Dad always taught me to buy decent shoes and that is was false economy to do otherwise.

If a laptop is important for your work then definitely invest in a MacBook. I had an expensive HP before this and I got two years out of it before it was irreparable.

Most electricals with heavy use should be the more expensive kind however cheap kettles are absolutely fine.

LakieLady · 07/02/2019 15:57

Shoes, handbags, tights, towels, carpets, wine, sausages (actuallly, most meat), marmalade, knives and saucepans.

lilyheather1 · 07/02/2019 16:04

Bin bags.
Beans
Conditioner

PlainVanilla · 07/02/2019 16:13

Buy cheap, pay twice.
Best yardstick is to work out how much you have/are prepared to pay for something and look for the item in that price range.

lurkingfromhome · 07/02/2019 16:14

Many things, now I think about it:

Meat, butter, tea, coffee, chocolate, jam, bread, etc etc

Haircuts, shampoo & conditioner, skincare, foundation

Knitwear, shoes, socks, coats. I had so many awful cheap jumpers from H&M that looked terrible after a month. Now I spend a lot more but the jumpers last for years.

Kitchen knives: you only need one all-purpose knife and a bread knife. I bought two Wusthof knives ten years ago, use them for everything and they're still amazing.

Appliances like kettles, toasters etc. Saucepans definitely.

Things I think you can buy cheap and buy well are: glasses (to drink from, not spectacles), laundry detergent, make-up except foundation if you choose wisely, online perfume dupes, own-brand medicines, plants.

flirtygirl · 07/02/2019 17:44

I don't think it's between expensive and cheap. It's about quality and you can find that at all price points. You need to be savvy and know what to look for.

For instance, good cotton sheets and bath towels can be found at many price points.

Some expensive items are just well packaged and shiny but of low quality.

Some cheap items may seem basic but are well made and last for ages.

I go for natural, well made and attractive and aim for the best price I can find.

'Shop well for less' often shows families going for expensive but rubbish items.

TheDogsMother · 07/02/2019 17:50

@twentypencemore I used to think this too then recently took a punt on 100 x dishwasher tabs, £6.99 from Office Depot. For that price it was worth a gamble and they are great

Agree on shoes
Decent haircut/colour
As much as I can afford on a mattress
Good bedding (Homesense is my friend here)
Meat/fish
Coats
Branded baked beans/brown sauce/mayo/tea
Underwear (not high end but M & S)
Makeup
Have recently moved to cloths and water for face cleansing and it is surprisingly good. Alternatively micellar
Love cashmere and nice handbags and have found some great new with tags on eBay

Hoppinggreen · 07/02/2019 17:55

Coat
Wine
Theatre tickets
Washing up liquid
Bin bags
Jumpers

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 07/02/2019 18:17

Things made from quality materials; leather shoes & bags, wooden furniture, natural fibre clothing.

Perfume.

I'm cheap when it comes to chocolate though Smile

redexpat · 07/02/2019 18:21

Loo roll
Bin liners
Priority boarding if flying on ryanair with kids

MissLanesAmericanCousin · 07/02/2019 18:28

A good moisturizer A good moisturizer will not only moisturize dry skin, but an oil free moisturizer can make your skin less greasy. It is also your first defense against the elements. Use AM & PM

A good SPF of at least 50 with UVA/UVB protection Use this over your moisturizer. I know it sounds batty, but even cloudy days can damage your skin. So can fluorescent lighting. Use AM or whenever needed, swimming, running etc.

A good foundation Nothing is worse than seeing a beautiful woman with the wrong foundation on. Make sure to swipe a line of foundation along your jawline. Blend. It should blend into your neck if it is the right colour. Having the right foundation makes you look more polished and professional

A good eye cream Your eye area is 3 times thinner than the rest of your face. You start to show your age around your eyes first. Use a size of a pea for each eye, then with you weakest finger (your ring finger) dab along under your eye up to your ocular bone. Do this am and pm.

A good pair of tweezers Cheap tweezers don't do the job. Spend the money on tweezerman. If they start to get dull, find a nail file made of hard frosted glass. Sand the end where the grippy part is. Your tweezers will be as good as new.

A good fragrance Nothing smells worse than a cheap poorly made fragrance that is 79% alcohol. If you need to buy a smaller bottle, that's fine. Just spray your pulse points, wrists, neck, Don't over do it. Don't let your perfume to walk into the room before you enter it.

A good pair of leather shoes Make sure they are a good fit, but not to snug, go with either black or a neural beige. Nothing frilly, but distinctive enough.

A good suit jacket In solid black. Make sure the jacket has some nice details ie, the lapel, a faux pocket etc. In a nice fabric, one that can go with trousers or a black skirt.

A good hand bag Who cares about labels? A solid, sturdy leather bag can last a good twenty years. Choose a colour that is neutral, like British Tan. You can find great vintage bags on etsy, ebay or at your local charity shop. If all leather, use shoe polish (in brown) to keep it looking fresh. I've had mine for 14 years and I have people stop me and think it's new.

A good watch If you wear one, a well made watch can last generations, so as long as it is well taken care of

A good pair of glasses If you wear them, make sure they're of good quality. It literally reflects on how you see the world.

A good all purpose kitchen knife This will save you both time and money. Make sure to get all purpose for chopping and meat cutting-not a bread or paring knife. You might also want to get a knife sharpener.

A good pan Cast iron is great if you don't have arthritis. Make sure to clean it with Crisco, opposed to soap and water so it won't rust. Will last long after your dead.

One good pair of every day earrings Gives you a more polished sophisticated look. Think every day, so nothing to elaborate.

One good quality every day chain/necklace Gives you a more polished, professional look, can add things to it. ie; fobs, pendants etc

A good boutis/comforter Keeps you cool in the summer and warm at night. Ours is wool filled.

A good electric toothbrush You can switch out the heads every 3 months and it gets those hard to reach places

A good pair of running/walking shoes this makes all the difference to your overworked feet

Things that are needed but you can skimp on

Facial cleanser as long as it doesn't dry out your skin, you're fine.
Toner Use rosewater or make it yourself. You can find the recipe online
Mascara Maybelline Great Lash is still awesome and costs a fraction of the price for higher end brands.
Lipsticks and lipliners Same, just find one that is moisturizing. Make sure to fill in your lips completely with lipliner so your lipstick will bind to it, thus it will last longer.
Exfoliator for face or body- Make one at home.I mix coffee grounds and sugar and honey, then pop in in the refrigerator. I drink a lot of coffee, so I have an endless supply.
Hair shampoo really doesn't matter. AS long as it doesn't have chemicals that strip your hair of natural oils then your fine. You need to google these chemicals though, as it is early and I'm only on my first cup of coffee. PS Washing your hair every day is bad for is use the 3 or 4 hair day rule. If you need a little volume use a dry shampoo or cornstarch and if you have some essential oils like rose or mint you can mix it in.

Hair conditioner/Hair rinse. Hair conditioners do work, but if you want to save money try making a hair rinse. Some of mine use apple cider vinegar, coffee, Black tea, Baking soda, epsom salt, lavender, the list goes on. Look online to see what hair rinse suits you best.

Back to makeup, and I've said this before, if you can buy Monistat chafing gel, you can use it in lieu of a foundation primer. Has the exact same ingredients. If you want a more natural version, then I would google it.

Well, that's all I can think of before my first cup of coffee is finished. If I think of anything else, I'll let you know.

OH! Coconut butter is great as a hair mask and coconut oil is great to use in lieu of a body moisturizer.

Good luck and sorry for the novel!

RuggyPeg · 07/02/2019 22:17

Moisturiser and eye cream don't work and toner is so old hat now.

Retinol, vit c and acid tone, plus SPF, is where it's at. You don't need to spend a fortune there either, if you know what to buy.

MissLanesAmericanCousin · 07/02/2019 22:58

I think you're talking about Glycolics, Lactics, Salycilic, Hyaluronic, Citric and so forth. Which, by the way, I use quite a bit as well as Vitamin C. I do know what I am talking about as I have been working and trained in the cosmetic industry and done freelance work for close to 20 years.

I did say, that she could skip a toner, but if she needed one, a simple infusion of rosewater will do. Plus it does help to Ph balance your skin.

I don't know what acid tone is? Acetone? Either way you do not sound like you know what you're talking about.

This is the end of this conversation. If you continue, I will not be here to read it.

SteelRiver · 07/02/2019 23:12

Lol roll.
Coffee (for my husband; I can't bear the stuff).

SteelRiver · 07/02/2019 23:13

*Loo roll.

easyandy101 · 07/02/2019 23:16

Outdoor clothes

Vital safety equipment

100mdash · 07/02/2019 23:21

Anything you use everyday. Briefcase, purse, bag, shoes, coat, bed, glasses...

They last longer (buy cheap, buy twice) and if you love them you’ll get a lift every day.

Thurmanmurman · 07/02/2019 23:23

Paint. Cheaper DIY shop own brand needs several coats so you spend more time and money in the end. I learned the hard way! Also kids school shoes and batteries.

bedunkalilt · 08/02/2019 00:10

Came on to also say start with stuff you use daily. This doesn’t mean you can’t get things in sales etc but it’s about being prepared to get good quality or good features.

Eg my bed, mattress, and bedding are all good quality, in terms of the materials and workmanship. Got lots of it in the sales though. Same for my sofa (really need to get a decent sofa! I’ve had some terrible ones!).

I wear glasses, again I get them online and during sales so cheaper than a lot of high street pairs, however I get the brand I like and all the special coatings (like for glare, UV etc) as it’s worth it (I see with them and they’re on my face all day every day, that’s quite important).

I think shoes and coats are very important to get decent quality. Men’s shirts - big difference between higher quality and cheap, higher quality wash immensely better, last longer and look better.

But it all comes down to whatever you do regularly, and I think what matters more is being a ‘conscious consumer’, learn about what you’re buying so you can make an informed decision. For example my skincare isn’t that expensive but it’s right for me and my skin, whereas a lot of the more expensive brands wouldn’t be. However I had to spend some time researching to figure that out.