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To expect a tired baby to sleep..

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northernsouljunket · 03/02/2019 21:07

I’m hoping an experienced mother out there can help me with a sleep deprived baby.

He is 6months old.
He always slept relatively badly. At first it was ok, but by 3 months he started waking every 1/2 hrs. So we have ended up co-sleeping. He is EBF.

But I’m not trying to solve the whole of his sleep pattern. I’m just trying to remedy one thing.
We put him every night at 7pm to bed.
But every night he wakes loads over those first few hours. Between 7pm and 9pm he wakes every 15-40mins.
It doesn’t matter the number of naps during the day. I thought maybe if he was less or more tired it would affect it but it doesn’t. He has only gone down once in the last 3months and not woken repeatedly.
Our routine is always the same. Bath, sleep, cuddle and he falls asleep being cuddled.
We dont feed him when he wakes again over the next few hours. But he seems to just need a cuddle etc and then settles back.

I just don’t get what wakes him when he is tired. I thought once he understood that he won’t be fed it would stop happening but after two months it has made no difference.

Thank you for getting through this.
If anyone has any ideas or relates to this then i’d Be very grateful to hear from you. Thank you 👍🏽👍🏽🙌🏼😻

OP posts:
Ohnonotuagain · 03/02/2019 22:07

The best thing I ever did was sleep train my baby. He went from waking every one to two hours to sleeping from 6pm till 6am (give or take).

He is EBF and I'm sure by constantly going to him and feeding him through the night he was getting upset as he had been falling asleep on the boob and then not understanding why he was then waking up without a boob there. He's so much more content and settled now.

We did controlled crying so he never felt abandoned and he now self soothes to sleep.

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