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WIBU to not give blood this time?

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OMGithurts · 03/02/2019 14:48

I am a regular donor, booked in for Thursday. My DC have been ill (chicken pox, d&v) and now they have colds. I have had what I would normally call a cold but I have been running a higher than normal temp (not fever but a good 1 - 1.5°c up on my normal), sore lungs, hacking cough as well as normal cold symptoms. Tbh I have felt fairly dreadful, I just walked to Tesco and back and need a lie down. If I go by the guidelines for donating with a cold, I should be ok on Thursday, but if this was a viral chest infection, then the guidance is to wait 2 weeks. I don't want to make an ill person sicker, but donation sessions are hard to come by especially whilst working and looking after small children, and I'm O- so in demand.

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PoutySprout · 03/02/2019 14:50

Don’t. They probably wouldn’t be able to use your blood anyway due to too many white cells if you have any sort of infection.

SummerHouse · 03/02/2019 14:50

No, no, no. For your own health. All fine if you are fighting fit but if not this could majorly set you back. Get well soon. Flowers

MitziK · 03/02/2019 14:54

Definitely leave it this time. You aren't well enough to donate and your precious gift would only end up being binned.

GailTheFish · 03/02/2019 14:55

Definitely wait - otherwise it’s only going to make you feel worse for longer and the donation could potentially be discarded depending on what antibodies are in your blood.

simonisnotme · 03/02/2019 14:55

no , they would probably not let you give blood anyway. they have a duty of care to the donor as well as the recipient

Hoopaloop · 03/02/2019 14:57

Leave it this time. Someone will walk in off the street and take your place.

Mascarponeandwine · 03/02/2019 14:57

I’m O neg and don’t donate. I have some weird neurology type stuff going on that relapses and remits, undiagnosed. My medical record would look fine for me to donate, but I don’t want to pass this awful undiagnosed syndrome type thing onto someone else.

There will be other times to donate in the near future when your virus has gone.

OMGithurts · 03/02/2019 14:57

Ah balls, what a pain to miss out for a fucking cold (albeit a fairly shitty one).

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OMGithurts · 03/02/2019 14:58

I never even thought about it making me feel worse!

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CantWaitToRetire · 03/02/2019 14:59

Just go online to the Blood website and rebook for a few weeks time.

OMGithurts · 03/02/2019 15:01

The next session locally is mid April Shock

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PoutySprout · 03/02/2019 15:36

Ah balls, what a pain to miss out for a fucking cold (albeit a fairly shitty one).

I was stopped from donating due to a broken finger. The swelling meant I would have too many white blood cells for the blood to be able to be used. They said they could take it if I wanted them to, but it would end up in the bin.

comedycentral · 03/02/2019 15:38

Don't give it this time, just book for the next date. I was meant to in Jan but I have been having ongoing dental treatment now for a few weeks so I had to cancel and rebook.

Fluffyears · 03/02/2019 15:42

They told me no donation is ever wasted they use them for research so I don’t think they end up ‘in the bin’. Although that is the Scottish blood transfusion service so maybe different elsewhere. I always get asked ‘are you feeling fit and well?’ If you can’t say yes then you can’t donate.

bizzieb33 · 03/02/2019 16:17

They do ask if you have been around infectious diseases so may not let you donate anyway because of the chicken pox exposure. You could always ring them for a check?

Darkstar4855 · 03/02/2019 16:18

Please ring the blood service helpline and get advice from them. They are very helpful.

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