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To get crushes so quickly and easily?

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namchane · 01/02/2019 20:21

In a LTR and we have 1 DC, and I'm wondering if this is normal or a relationship red flag.

I get crushes on people so easily - especially at the minute. People that aren't usually my type or even people that would never be my type. I have a big crush on a male colleague currently who I'd never take a second look at usually. Even an employee at my local shop that I go to on my lunch. And when I get a crush, I think about them a lot/daydream about them.
Honest to god I'm cringing typing this as I sound like a 15 year old girl but the question is more... does this sound like a bad sign about my relationship? I've been up and down about whether I see it lasting as long as I'd always hoped and dreamed it to and I'm wondering if this is normal to have such strong attractions to other people. I don't want to ask any friends incase I sound like an awful person and quite frankly just weird and pathetic.

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bobstersmum · 01/02/2019 20:30

Well everyone us allowed a crush but it becomes more than a crush if you have hopes of anything happening with these people. I would also say while a bit of fantasy is ok in your own head, it sounds like you might be wasting too much time daydreaming about these people. Are you in love with your dp?

namchane · 01/02/2019 20:40

@bobstersmum when I started thinking like this, I don't even know anymore!

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