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Mallorie · 01/02/2019 16:36

There's a secluded row of terraces overlooking parkland that I have loved for years. I walk my dog through the park they overlook nearly every day and dream of living there. I've only seen one go up for sale in all that time and it was immediately snapped up.

Would it be totally pointless to write and copy a note to each of the 15 terraces (sent properly by post, not stuck in the door like a flyer) addressed to 'Homeowner' to say how much I love the houses and that, if they were ever to decide to sell, that I would be very likely to pay their reasonable asking price with no argument at all (signed with an email address but not a phone number)? I'm not in a chain, as we're on a month-to-month tenancy until we find a home we love, and we would be cash buyers, if that makes a difference (should I mention that as well or would that put people off for sounding a bit braggy?)

I don't think I would mind at all if I got a letter like this, and would be happy to deal with a no-hassle cash buyer if I did need to sell. How would you react?

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Meangirls36 · 01/02/2019 17:11

That would help someone looking to sell. No harm to it.

Racecardriver · 01/02/2019 17:13

You can do it but you are unlikely to have any luck if they are in such high demand.

viccat · 01/02/2019 17:15

Do it but handwrite the envelope to make sure it gets opened and add your phone number in case there are elderly owners who are not comfortable using email.

Mirali · 01/02/2019 17:15

Nothing ventured, nothing gained

Yabbers · 01/02/2019 17:17

This happened where my friend lived. New homes near an excellent school. My friend thought it was a bit weird.

I assume you’d set up an email address specifically for it.

Purpleartichoke · 01/02/2019 17:17

We have had notes and even people knocking on our door. We are one of the cheaper houses in a very good school area. I must admit that we have been tempted over the years because we could afford to upgrade, but ultimately have decided to live frugally. We might give in one day though.

JustTwoMoreSecs · 01/02/2019 17:20

Do it!

Someone will surely come to the thread to say they would hate it, it might upset residents etc but in the real workd people will read it and forget about it if they are not interested... or get back to you if they think it might be a good idea to sell.

MissMaisel · 01/02/2019 17:20

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Neversurrender65 · 01/02/2019 17:21

Yep, there are places like that out there. We live in a lovely location, one of a dozen big, spacious Victorian semis, with relatively huge gardens that only come up very rarely. It’s actually not that dissimilar to how we found out about ours, as it wasn’t advertised by board. Most of our neighbours care about who they sell to, it’s what has kept the neighbourhood so friendly and caring. Do make sure you have a very good idea of what they are going for though, you don’t want a shock if someone takes you up on your offer! Good luck.

seastargirl · 01/02/2019 17:23

This is how we got our house, the lady had lived in it for 40 years and didn't want to sell to a developer.

Our letter was quite personal saying how my husband had grown up in the area and this is where we wanted to raise our family, included phone number and email, she emailed and asked to meet us and I swear she was interviewing us to see if we were suitable for her house, she even asked to meet the kids before she agreed to sell to us, it was worth it though, we'd never have got the house otherwise as it would have gone to a bidding war and we'd have been out priced.

BinaryStar · 01/02/2019 17:27

I’ve known people land a property privately this way. I would say that you would not need a mortgage, would be in a position to move swiftly as no chain, and I would start with something about how you pass the houses with your dog. Makes it more personal.

Oysterbabe · 01/02/2019 17:29

Yeah it's fine, I know a couple of people who found their house this way.

Blinkingblimey · 01/02/2019 17:33

Definitely do it - I have friends who did this and it worked!!

importantkath · 01/02/2019 17:37

Shy bairns get nowt x

OVAgroundWOMBlingfree · 01/02/2019 17:40

This is how we bought out house.

OVAgroundWOMBlingfree · 01/02/2019 17:40

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MrsEricBana · 01/02/2019 17:41

Definitely! Good luck!

AprilSpring · 01/02/2019 17:53

A friend bought her house this way.
Nothing ventured.....

ChandelierSail · 01/02/2019 17:58

Do it! A colleague of mine was the same as you. She only wanted to live on one particular road. So she wrote a letter to every house similar to what you propose and it turns out one of the owners were wanting to sell and really appreciated saving money on estate agents.

Go for it! What have you got to lose?

Iloveautumnleaves · 01/02/2019 18:08

I’d do it, but I’d hand write the letter, and put it through the door and include mobile phone number.

I’d make it very personal about walking the dog and loving those houses etc.

Good luck!

There’s a house near me I’d love to buy, it’s not huge but it’s SO adorable, but the area is incredibly expensive so there’s the wee issue of getting a lottery win first! But when I do I’ll be bombarding them with bribes to let me buy it 🤣

hamzilla · 01/02/2019 18:33

Absolutely nothing to lose!

Keep us updated on how it goes.

Charlie97 · 01/02/2019 18:35

Do it!

Pugwash1 · 01/02/2019 19:15

This regularly happens where we live. My parents did it and after the owner passed away their NOK called them and sold it to them straight away. Quick, painless and no fees. Might be the incentive someone needs who may be considering selling.

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