Hi me and my partner of over 10 years had an argument the other day brought on by my finding that he has been on several dating websites. I did not at first confront him on this as I don't find comunicating when annoyed/ angry really easy and tend to bottle all this up. Last week after a few days of just completely ignoring him he ask what was wrong why was i ignoring him. so I finally just exploded words at him about what I had found on his computer. He claims that his friend has signed him up for them and has also done fake facebook accounts and Instagram accounts. I however do not believe this for several reasons. 1 He spends alot of time with "friends" but dosent invite me to any nights out when friends partners are going. 2. It's like saying a highly boy did it and ran away. 3. If his friend signed him up for them then why has he been logging in to them. 4. He went weird when I signed into his computer to check uni app and said I was on his whatsapp. 5. He had a 2 year long thing previously where he claimed he was going to see friends but was actually meeting up with a married ex to "talk".
I am driving myself nuts. He is constantly on his computer or texting and smiling at his phone when he comes home from work or is in a weird mood and just ignores me like now. I am at the point of just grabbing his phone and snooping.