Hi, I've previously posted about this but the situation has got worse and I'm getting really down about it.
I'm 4 weeks pp and I'm now not talking to my mum, or should I say she's not talking to me.
Since having my baby, I have felt under a lot of pressure from her, she would spend all day every day with my DS if she could, and when she isn't here she is constantly asking for photos, saying she misses him and makes remarks about parenting choices we make. My DF is lucky enough to have extended paternity leave, and she is the only one to have found all of the negatives in this - I believe it's because she wants to be the one helping with my DS rather than my DF.
Over the past few weeks, things have got gradually worse with her being very difficult and complaining that she hasn't seen him enough, she won't be able to look after him when I go back to work because he won't know her, but then being difficult to make plans with when I do suggest them. She says we're 'always busy' when the reality is that through the week and evenings she has commitments with my younger sister.
At the weekend I finally couldn't hold my tongue any more and asked her to please stop putting pressure on me, that I'm doing the best I can and trying to make sure everyone does see DS whilst also enjoying time as a family. She told me she feels used, upset and didn't expect things to be this way when DS arrived. I was supposed to see her yesterday, when I took DS out on my own for the first time to meet my Aunty for coffee at a small retail park. She then changed her mind and refused to come because she didn't feel it was 'quality time' 
We now haven't spoken since the weekend. I am usually the first to make contact or apologise if we ever do fall out (which really doesn't happen often) but AIBU to feel it really should be her getting in touch with me? I'm a new, FTM and I feel like she is trying to taint it for me, and I just don't know what to do next.
I'm just looking for some support because I don't really have anyone else to talk to, my DF is very supportive but he finds the whole situation very difficult.
Thank you if you have got this far x