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To be afraid of the dark at 32?

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2ellenor2 · 28/01/2019 23:14

I’m 32 and I can’t sleep with the light off. I can’t even have just a dim light / lamp on, it has to be the main light. My friends think I’m insane

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Polarbearflavour · 29/01/2019 19:31

It’s only ghosts who live in the dark, they won’t hurt you.

mumtomaxwell · 29/01/2019 19:34

YANBU I’m in my forties have several kids and am still scared of the dark! Our house is never dark- I’ve been the same my whole life.

brizzledrizzle · 29/01/2019 19:35

I'm not scared of the dark but I do sometimes like to leave the landing light on. Maybe I'm just odd because I also sometimes take sugar in coffee and sometimes I don't.

SexNotJenga · 29/01/2019 19:36

Refer yourself to IAPT. They love a specific phobia. (out of interest... Is there anything else you don't like apart from spiders and the dark?)

Needallthesleep · 29/01/2019 19:50

At 34 I’m scared of the dark. It’s ok where we live because there’s light from the street that comes through our blinds, but I couldn’t be in a room any darker. It’s a bit embarrassing if I’m away with friends, having a little night light on my phone and hoping they don’t see it. I can’t understand people who have total dark. My OH also wears an eye mask.

2ellenor2 · 29/01/2019 20:20

@SexNotJenga

I do actually have a fear of wheelie bins and have done from a young age. I can’t walk on the same side of the road as one and definitively wouldn’t be able to touch one. I don’t have OCD or anything like that

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IlluminatiParty · 29/01/2019 20:28

YANBU. I'm afraid of the dark at 44. I leave the landing light on or have a nightlight. Single parent so it's in the wee hours I feel the weight of the night and all the responsibilities perhaps.

My youngest has had trouble settling at age 9 but letting him keep his bedside light on sorted it out.

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