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How do you find the courage to destroy everything?

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sabriel2019 · 28/01/2019 20:09

I'm at the end of my tether with my long-term partner and don't want this relationship any more.

The problem is, I don't know how to get over the guilt of breaking up.

He has no money to move out with. I can't afford to pay mortgage and bills here while also living elsewhere. It would mean a HUGE upheaval for him and the thought of doing that to him makes me feel sick.

How do you find the nerve to burst the bubble?

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Mokepon · 28/01/2019 20:15

What it boils down to is that you are not responsible for anyone else's happiness, only your own.
And if he has no money, it isn't your fault. He is an adult.
So whilst ultimately it is shitty, what is the alternative? You stay miserable and feel guilty anyway knowing you want out?

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