I agree, @Fairynuff - how can women’s safety and rights be protected, if we cannot define what is or is not a woman? When posting the dictionary definition of woman - adult, human female - is transphobic, and when our words are being erased - chest feeding instead of breastfeeding, bleeders or menstruators instead of women having periods - how can we hope to preserve our sex-based protections?
Why is it OK to tell women they can’t talk about things like periods, smears, birth, breastfeeding or FGM because it excludes penis-having-trans-women? There is a fuckton of stuff that people talk about, that I cannot experience - do I throw a hissy fit and demand they stop talking about them? No, I do not - because the world does not revolve around me.
I notice that no-one seems to be objecting to talk about prostate exams or testicular cancer - presumably because these happen to men, and no-one wants to erase men.
Transactivism seems, to me, to be institutionally misogynist, in nature. Lesbians must accept ‘lady penis’, women must shut up and accept men in any and all of their spaces, women must not talk about anything related to being female, women must give up their spaces on women-only short lists, or in jobs such as ‘Women’s Officer’, women who have trained since childhood in a sport must sit back and watch, without complaint, as male bodies people, who have grown up with all the physical advantages that brings, identify as women and ‘win’ at sports like cycling - and if we dare to object, then ‘bashing a TERF’ is entirely acceptable, even if you are six foot plus and male bodied and it is an elderly woman you are bashing. Screaming at shop staff - that is fine too. Doxxing and rape threats - entirely reasonable ways to confront something you don’t like.
And just for the record, no, I am not transphobic - I am fucking furious.