Posting for traffic, NC'd as i really rather not link this issue with my normal name for fear of friends finding out! (Been here since penis beaker, mexican house thief and my personal fave - sistine chapel screamer!)
In a nutshell;
DH and i been together over a decade. Im early 30s, as is he, married and now have a wonderful 10 month old.
Last time we had sex was on his birthday in August 2017.
Yes. Well over a pissing year ago!
When i was around 10 weeks pregnant. Up until i got pregnant we having sex around once a week ish...then i had HG and as i started to progress in my pregnancy, and babys head started to get more engaged, it was a no go.
Then i gave birth last april and we are YET to have sex. Forceps birth with a cut so a couple stitches,all fine and dandy since maybe 6 weeks PP.
Wtf do i do? I do want it. As does he. We both seem to want it at different times. I feel a bit embarrassed of my body still, he loves it though. I cant bear the thought of him touching my breasts as i BFed up until 4 weeks ago. I just cant see my boobs as a sexual place! Baby is still in the cot in our room. I just dont know how and where to start. I feel weird! I feel like a proper mother and i think ive forgotten how to be just me!
HELP!