Dh and I have been together for 11 years
10 year old dd and 11 month old ds.
Anyway...im not sure if im being petty or 'nagging' as he says, im very house proud and believe every one should muck in and do their bit - basically, just tidying up after themselves.
I clean all day long - i like our home clutter free!
Dh isn't working atm but is studying at college two days per week.
We have had multiple rows over me asking him to do the basics like make the bed if he's the last one up, or wash the dishes while im getting the children ready for bed etc...
I know theres more important things going on in the world but should i (a woman) be made to do everything?
His argument is he goes to college twice a week and im a moany old bossy cow.
I feel like his mum sometimes.
Any advice appreciated 