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AIBU to delete DDs "nanna" off of fb

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47parsnips · 25/01/2019 18:51

She's made no effort to see DD, I split with DDs dad 3 years ago.
Her dad doesn't see her regularly, few times a year maybe, but that's a different story.

For some reason I still have her on fb... AIBU to delete her as I don't see why she should get this little window into our lives without giving a shit about her grandchild?

If I did, she'd probably kick off.. never see her though so her reaction doesn't bother me.

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User758172 · 25/01/2019 18:52

I would. Delete and forget about her. She obviously doesn’t give two hoots. What a shame for her. She’s missing out.

Littleraindrop15 · 25/01/2019 18:52

If it bothers you then by all means but if you don't really care then don't bother.

welcometonarnia · 25/01/2019 18:54

Delete and move on.

NC4Now · 25/01/2019 18:54

What harm does it do having her there? I have my boys nan on mine even though she sees them once a year when their dad arranges it.
I just think if that’s the level of contact she wants, fair enough. They aren’t close but there’s no big deal.
Up to you though. Would it actually make you feel better? For how long, really?

AcrossthePond55 · 25/01/2019 18:55

I think there's a way you can stop someone on your FB list from seeing your posts without 'unfriending' them. (I'm not on FB but I've heard DH talk about doing it)

But if she's not someone you maintain any type of contact with, then block away.

GlassSuppers · 25/01/2019 18:58

I'd keep her on but change my posts to friends accept nanna so she couldn't see anything anyway.

If she doesn't say anything after a while of not seeing my posts I'd block her all together so I don't pop up on her people you may know section!

C0untDucku1a · 25/01/2019 18:58

Put her on your restricted list. She wont be able to see anything on your page that way. Tag her in things occasionally so she doesnt get suspicious.

Singlenotsingle · 25/01/2019 18:58

She probably won't even notice!

47parsnips · 25/01/2019 19:17

Bumped into her a year ago out in town with DD. At this point then she hadn't seen her in a year. She asked her if she'd been a good girl then proceeded to ask me about a DVD she gave her son 6 years ago...

We never talk, have nothing in common, when I broke up with ex she was on the phone trying to persuade me to get back with him despite the violence.

I returned her DVD Grin

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PrettyLovely1 · 25/01/2019 19:20

I would delete her.

Amallamard · 25/01/2019 19:22

If you don't have anything to do with her she can kick off all she likes surely?

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