Hi, I'm in a quandary and don't know if I'm being unreasonable, it's more for advice really.
My 4 year old is very shy and often refuses to speak to people, I was and am still like this letting people push me around, my parents never did anything to help and its effected my whole life, held me back. Anyway to the point.
I decided last summer to get her involved in more activities, more for socialising and confidence than anything. She goes swimming once per week on a Friday evening which she really enjoys. She also goes dancing twice per week (same place) but says she can take it or leave it, will go but isn't passionate about it. One of her good friends has now left and she hasn't made any new friends since September. They are huge classes and doesn't get any close tuition as far as I'm aware apart from copying the teacher. It's a massive hassle to get to the Tuesday lesson, it's local but I have to get someone to look after my son with ASD and get there and changed quickly for 4pm not long after school.
I also want her to start rainbows when she's 5 in July which is on the Tuesday evening after dancing which would be a really long day for her.
I've found a drama, singing and movement class around 30 mins away on a a Saturday morning which is the same price as the 2 dancing lessons combined but have smaller class sizes and seem really good. This would free up Tuesdays for rainbows only, Fridays swimming and dancing on Saturday.
Sorry if this is confusing just need some advice! Dd says she's not bothered either way. I just want her to grow in confidence. Thanks 