Goodness me! <fans self>

[NoMoreMarbles]

It's not an AIBU but...

I'm married and all...

I work in a very male-centric environment and there's a new manager who started a week or so ago and oh sweet Moses he's beautiful!

Tall (6 feet plus region) slim but well built, dark hair, brown eyes

I'm all a-flutter like some sort of damsel and I've got to be professional (he's one of my main stakeholders!) so need an outlet...

Anyone fancy joining me in some entirely lighthearted, slightly objectifying, appreciation of the opposite sex?

We had a new chap at work, alas he's gone to a different department now but he was so gorgeous the first time I saw him my jaw hit the floor... I very much enjoyed looking at him! He turned up to our Christmas do in a three piece suit and stood at the bar sipping whiskey and managed to pull off the look. Some people would look pretensious but he just looked - good...

It's work boots and high vis vests in my place... I dread to think how I would cope if he was in a 3 piece suit!

Lol OP, I used to be just like you - the very occasional crush, until I had my hysterectomy early, now I'm like a little old lady and miss those days so much.

It was always just in my head and would pass (been happily married for nearly 30 years, Mr G is fab) and no one would know but me.

It's a lovely feeling, enjoy feeling this way, it tended to peter out after a couple of week for me.

there so it's been a bit of a culture shock to be managing 130 men now..
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I'm under around 130 men at work, and I'll be honest and tell you I've never been happier.

There are at least 10 who are utterly shaggable. Current crush looks like an older, rough in a good way version of Alex Skarssgaard

Jason Momoa

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Now, I'm not shy and I like a good flirt. But he would have me speechless. He really would. He's so otherworldly! What do you say to a guy like that? Er, secret club?!

I had a client like this once.

He was just so attractive, like there was almost a physical pull.

It took all of my concentration to remain professional.