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AIBU?

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To think pouring water on your icy car is just selfish?

459 replies

7hup · 23/01/2019 09:19

Just fell on my face outside a neighbour who must have done this early morning.

So a stream of ice running across the pavement to the road which I didn't see

I fell hard. Am OK but if I were elderly or more fragile I could have bad injuries.

At least salt the pavement after!

OP posts:
TheFormerMrsPugwash · 23/01/2019 16:23

@CarolDanvers Very well said. It's possible to say someone is BU without being rude and unpleasant about it.

yayhamlet · 23/01/2019 16:24

You wouldn't last a day in Chicago, OP.

It's winter ... and there's gonna ice on the ground regardless of whether or not someone pours water over their windshield. Watch where you're walking next time and get over yourself.

howabout · 23/01/2019 16:29

2 of my oldest friends live in Chicago. They would be horrified at the very thought of doing something as deliberately inconsiderate as pouring water on a pavement when icy. Shock

There are even social norms about not stealing someone's parking space once they have cleared it of snow.

He11y · 23/01/2019 16:29

Well you learn something new every day - we’ve only ever had Fords so didn’t know the quick clear windscreen was unique to them. It’s a godsend and I love my car just a little bit more now! Grin

He11y · 23/01/2019 16:37

Just googled and it’s not only Fords that have heated windscreens now so that’s something to look out for when buying a new car I’d say! You won’t regret it and it’s better than putting pedestrians at risk!

Rockbird · 23/01/2019 16:37

Agreed NannyOgg. I love my Focus, the windscreen defrosts in about 15 seconds. No de-icing, no scraping. Fabulous.

howabout · 23/01/2019 16:39

yayhamlet suggest you acquaint yourself with Chicago's sidewalk snow and ice clearing regulations.

www.chicago.gov/city/en/depts/cdot/supp_info/sidewalk_snow_removal.html

yayhamlet · 23/01/2019 16:43

They would be horrified at the very thought of doing something as deliberately inconsiderate as pouring water on a pavement when icy.

They'd be 'horrified at the thought' of adding another layer of ice to an already icy ground? Somehow I doubt that, cause that'd be ridiculous. (And for what it's worth, I've never poured water over my windshield, but my point still stands. The OP should have watched where she was walking.)

TornFromTheInside · 23/01/2019 16:55

They'd be 'horrified at the thought' of adding another layer of ice to an already icy ground?

Doesn't quite work like that... layers of snow don't form like sheet ice, but pouring water does. The water will melt the snow as it lands and form a pool, which will then turn to ice.

It's similar to how they polish an ice rink... they melt a thin layer so that it's in liquid form, that will self level and ice with a smooth finish.

yayhamlet · 23/01/2019 16:57

yayhamlet I suggest you acquaint yourself with Chicago's sidewalk snow and ice clearing regulations.

And I suggest that you acknowledge the fact that not everybody follows those regulations, not to mention the fact that people can't remove snow and ice from the sidewalk in front of their house while they're not home.

Dotty1970 · 23/01/2019 17:05

I get the hose pipe out usually and it ensures my doors and bonnet etc are defrosted

yayhamlet · 23/01/2019 17:05

Doesn't quite work like that...

Explain the large patch of black ice on my driveway then? (And no, I haven't poured any water on it.)

DrCoconut · 23/01/2019 17:05

A windscreen cover would be nicked the first night round here 😂

TornFromTheInside · 23/01/2019 18:28

Explain the large patch of black ice on my driveway then? (And no, I haven't poured any water on it.)

Because settled water will have frozen, or snow melted, then frozen again.

TornFromTheInside · 23/01/2019 18:29

Go get the slippery ice, it has to be settled water that freezes in place. That's why pouring water on your car encourages the formation of ice sheet ice on the floor.

TornFromTheInside · 23/01/2019 18:29

*To get

Ariela · 23/01/2019 18:41

We have a gravel drive about 300m from the road but even so I prefer to use the scraper. No chance of it re-freezing if for some reason I get delayed actually leaving the house after de-icing

ForalltheSaints · 23/01/2019 18:43

Many people are always running late or cutting time, and even with the weather forecast, would not have got up any earlier. So something that is a quick fix for them is no surprise.

CSIblonde · 23/01/2019 18:51

Poor you OP, I'm lucky in that everyone local to me has large no. of kids to get to school & Temple daily, so they salt their bit of path & pavement as soon as snow starts. I do too after a nasty fall on ice last year.

Spamfrittersforeveryone · 23/01/2019 18:58

Why is the water on the PAVEMENT though?

TornFromTheInside · 23/01/2019 19:09

Why is the water on the PAVEMENT though?

Not sure where in the world you are, but in the UK it's quite common for people to park half on the pavement, or kerbside, so if they pour warm water over the windows, or down the side of the door to melt it, the water will pour into the floor / pavement, within a few minutes (after they've driven off) the pooled water turns to ice.

Obviously, much depends on how much water they pour, but a good poor over a windscreen will run down underneath the car (by design) - all the water they poured went somewhere right? it didn't just melt the ice and magically evaporate... so the water that remains on the floor = all that was poured + all that was melted.

Nacreous · 23/01/2019 19:11

Spam if it's anything like where I live it's because all the drive slope down to the pavement and then the dropped kerbs slope down to the road. So the water flows down the drive, and across the pavement, leaving a thin layer which turns to ice as it refreezes.

I have rubber grip studs for my shoes, but even outdoor boots don't solve a black ice problem. Sure, I will be careful, but people should also be considerate. Lots of the pavements get gritted here, but if the salt has been washed away after the 4am grit by a large quantity of hot water then it can't do much good!

Frickssake · 23/01/2019 19:30

I'm obviously doing something wrong or my cars faulty. I have a 16 plate focus and even with the quick clear on takes well over 5 minutes ( usually nearer 10 ) to clear.
Any advice from fellow ford users as it's also started freezing on the inside of my windscreen now. ........ TIA

Frankthebank · 23/01/2019 19:34

Yet another reason to live in the country. No pesky passers by to fall on my ice!

TigerTooth · 23/01/2019 19:41

So where was the car parked? In their drive?
if parked on a road it wouldn't get to the pavement.
If on a drive I can see how people wouldn't really think about it being a problem,