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To go back to the GP?

14 replies

PleaseLetItBeNapTime · 21/01/2019 19:20

DS who is 2 has been unwell for the last 8 days. He was a little clingy the weekend before last, and had a runny nose but he was fine, however last Monday I got called to pick him up from nursery as he was lethargic and off food/wouldn't take water.

His key worker scared the life out of me by asking me if I knew the symptoms for sepsis, so I took him straight to the GP. I was told that he has a virus and it would take up to 14 days for recovery and to return if he didn't feel better after that, and to keep him hydrated etc.

On the Tuesday after talking to DH and nursery we realised he hadn't opened his bowels for 4 days, and thought constipation could be why he was not his normal self, so I went back to the GP for some laxatives which he had had previously. He also developed a temperature which was 39.5, which lasted pretty much until yesterday afternoon.

It's now been a week and he's still really lethargic. He hasn't played with any of his toys since the Sunday before he became unwell, isn't really taking much interest in his favourite CBeebies shows, and just wants to sleep constantly. DS has had viruses in the past but they've never lasted so long and he's never been so unlike his normal self.

Does this potentially sound like it could be more than just a virus?

Would I be unreasonable to take him back to the GP before the end of the 14 day recovery period?

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Elphame · 21/01/2019 19:23

I'd take him back. My DS had similar symptoms with sepsis.

Whoopsies · 21/01/2019 19:29

Take him back if you are concerned at all. I'm sure they wouldn't mind. But to add, my ds got a virus his first term at pre school and he was ill for 3 weeks, I remember he literally didn't even pick up a toy that whole time, just lay on the sofa. It was so worrying but he got over it eventually, sometimes these things take time.

PleaseLetItBeNapTime · 21/01/2019 19:40

Thank you both, I'm going to try to get him an out of hours GP appointment for tonight.

@Elphame - hope your DS was ok

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Elphame · 21/01/2019 19:48

He was thank you! - he'd seen the GP at the start of the week with a temperature and lethargy. Diagnosed as a virus and told to bring him back in he was no better by the Friday. He wasn't so I did take him back and the GP said he didn't think it was meningitis but he wasn't 100% sure so he sent us straight to the hospital where the paed consultant was waiting for us. He had a lumbar puncture and a diagnosis of sepsis.

We had a couple of days in hospital but he was absolutely fine. Hope your little one is OK. It probably is just a virus but you can;t be too careful at that age.

BarbarianMum · 21/01/2019 19:49

Ds2 was like this with flu. Totally spark out for 10 days and grotty for another 7. So I wouldn't worry too much at this point but I would get him checked if you are concerned. It might be worth them checking his ears etc in case of a secondary infection.

Quartz2208 · 21/01/2019 20:07

has he had his urine tested - what is his urine output?

WatcherOfTheNight · 21/01/2019 20:27

Listen to your instincts,take him for another check he's still only little & those symptoms need looking at .
No doctor minds another look at a little one when they are clearly not well .

Ozziewozzie · 21/01/2019 20:33

Definately take him back. GP’s won’t mind, and if they do, tough titties. My sons just been really ill and I’m so glad I’ve persisted otherwise it could have been much worse. A good gp will say ‘a mother knows her child best’ if you’re worried, trust yourself.
It’s not people like you who waste gp time. There’s a whole other thread! Grin

LittleMe03 · 21/01/2019 20:51

I'd say trust your instincts OP. It's a long time for a child that age to be poorly with no improvements.

I hope you're able to get your GP appointment for tonight and hope he is ok Thanks

PleaseLetItBeNapTime · 21/01/2019 21:58

Hi all, DH finally arrived back home and we've agreed to take DS back to the gp in the morning as he has semi-perked up and ate quite a bit for his dinner which we hope is a sign that he's on the mend.

@Elphame - I'm glad to hear that your DS was ok - and as you said initially illness sounds very similar to my DS

@Quartz2208 - from Tuesday onwards fluid intake has been good and plenty of wet nappies , however his last nappy this evening was dry (maybe had it on for three hours)

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PleaseLetItBeNapTime · 21/01/2019 22:04

Sorry - no he hasn't had his urine tested.

Thanks everyone for the reassurance. I feel really awkward about repeat GP appointments, where the GP has basically told me to wait things out. I used to work with the practice that we're registered at, which definitely makes things awkward (especially for smears!), and I was also told by a locum there that I'm an anxious first time mum, when I was asking about whether DS had silent reflux as baby, which I don't think I am, which has made me question everything when it comes to seeking medical advice.

Will keep you all update tomorrow, thanks again

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Kko1986 · 22/01/2019 12:33

I've always been told a few things with regards to babies and toddlers never feel like you are wasting their time if you are worried. And always follow your instincts you know your baby

PleaseLetItBeNapTime · 22/01/2019 22:47

Hi all,

So DS decided that at 4:30 am it was time for all of us to get up as he wanted 'beetbix' (weetabix) and 'Raa Raa'!
It was like someone flicked a switch and he was back to his normal energetic self, playing with his toys and running about. I haven't wiped his nose or heard him cough once today - after the week we've had it feels like a miracle!

Thank you all again for your reassurance and advice .

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LittleMe03 · 23/01/2019 11:32

I'm pleased he's feeling much better OP Thanks

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