My in-laws have ticked me off a few too many times these past few months and my partner recently mentioned to them we were planning on going abroad and now they’ve offered to tag along and everyone thinks it’ll be a really good trip and I’m the only one dreading it ,not only do they make me feel uncomfortable they’re crazy drinkers! They think it’s going to be a big booze up and that’s not what I wanted I’ve git a two year old and a baby, my partner thinks I’m being unreasonable for not wanting to go with them but they just make me uncomfortable and it’s not like they don’t mean to they actively try to put me down. They think I breastfeed my newborn son so that I don’t have to go to work and they actually called me “selfish” For it 😅 ? FIL called me fat and told me I best get my bikini body back before we go (I had a 4 week old at the time). It’s not just unwanted comments all the time and they undermine basically every parenting decision I make, they fed my daughter solids at 16 weeks even know they knew I was waiting until 6 months. It’s almost every time we go there ,I’m so grateful that they’re so involved my daughter loves them so it would be nice for my daughter for them to be there but It’s my holiday too and I don’t wanna be insecure the whole time or uncomfortable. They don’t wanna see me breastfeeding even under a cover so what will I do ? Stay in the room feeding my son? My partner has said something too them before but nothing changed accept they started to make fun of the fact I “can’t take anything on the chin” but like I said I don’t want them there I want to relax on my first family holiday with my kids and partner, I know I’m being shellfish but I do believe some times you’re aloud to be especially when you’re lying lots of money but It’ll probably be fine I’m just dreading it I don’t wanna be lumped with both kids on my own while they all go out or just feel too awkward to get into my swim suit or anything like that