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To think there's nothing wrong with zoo animals for a girl?

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Endofrelationship · 15/01/2019 15:46

I'm expecting DC2, we have been led to believe from the scan that it is a little girl. We have DS already.

I went to John Lewis yesterday to pick up some baby night gowns for easy night changes. They were in the sale and the only ones they had were grey and white striped and zoo animals, in a set of two (one of each).

My mum and sister told me I couldn't buy them as they weren't 'girly' enough. My sister even went as far as to ask the assistant if they had any girl ones (which they didn't). I told them to stop being ridiculous and bought them anyway.

Mum wouldn't stop going on about how everyone would think I had a lovely little boy in those. Firstly, who gives a crap? and secondly - THEY ARE FOR NIGHT TIME! Also thirdly, DS was about 6 weeks old, dressed head to toe in blue and two people told me what a lovely little girl I had!

AIBU to think that zoo animals on a white background are unisex? And that it wouldn't have mattered even if they'd have been boy ones? FWIW I fully intent to dress DD in some of DSs old clothes, including a cute little baby grow with blue robots on, just because I like it! DD has plenty of time to assert her desire for pink sparkly clothes when she is older, which is her right and will be honored.

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planespotting · 15/01/2019 19:15

Oh FFS, you are right OP
The term "girly" sends shrivers down my spine
If I hear "girly girl" I have to physically stop myself from banging my head against something hard

Chocolateheaven123 · 15/01/2019 19:45

They sound lovely! I'm looking on JL now to have a look myself Grin (I'm expecting another baby, not literally for myself!!)

FWIW, I've bought completely white vests for my son whos now a toddler, as if we had another baby, they can be reused. My mum said if I have a girl this time, I need to buy "pretty vests" Hmm yes because God forbid, I should put a white vest on a girl! The horror!!

the99 · 15/01/2019 20:46

@Chocolateheaven123 Girly vests piss me off. I've been trying to find some new vests without the poppers for DD now she's in pants and all the "girl vests" have spaghetti straps and look about as much use as shoving a piece of tissue down her jumper!! I've bought her some very cool Toy Story vests which are apparently for boys Hmm

And don't get me started on the difference in boy/girl pants! DS's toddler pants were thick, lots of elastic, felt like a solid pant that could hold a solid in the event of an accident. DD's pants are (again) like tissue and are usually found creeping up her bum! Needless to say, she's now in her brother's old pants!

What is it about dressing girls in "pretty" flimsy shit!

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