5 of us joined together a few years back in my workplace, not best friends but get on fairly well. About a year ago, we decided to start buying bday presents for each member of the group contributing £25 each a time (pricey I know) - each person for a pres of about £100. I’m less close to the group members but always included in things generally and no one has any problems with me. We have had three birthdays so far although presents not given on the day (sometimes a week or two later doeneding on everyone’s whereabouts)... I have just shelled out for two (50 quid) and suddenly struck me it was my birthday a week ago and haven’t heard anything... I know you don’t give to receive and I was out the office that whole week but feeling a little perturbed. I feel like there is still time but equally will be so hurt if not even a card. Aibu?