To ask what things are you selfish about?

[SauvingnonBlanketyBlanc]

For me its food.I hate it when ds asks for a taste of food off my plate.Piss off it's mine!
I am being light hearted obviously but it's the one thing that I'm a selfish cow about.Anyone else have any?

Bubble bath. I usually buy radox or whatever for everyone to use but sometimes I buy nice smelly ones from Avon and I hide them so dh won't use them

I hate sharing
Anything
I was 11 months old when my mum gave birth to twins, then the eldest of 6.
I grew up sharing everything I ever had.. now I'm an adult I'm strangely possessive over my things 🤦‍♀️

I'm on a pretty restrictive diet I am insanely selfish about my food right now. It kills me on the inside if DS (aged 2) asks for a bite!

My alone time. All day I've been dreaming of coming home and having a nap. My partner messaged me at 2pm to see if he could come over. I don't want to have to talk to anyone nor compromise my tv schedule. More notice next time please you can't come over.

My time. I really value my day off, I need it to recharge, I also value bmy time with the kids, so make sure it happens every day, and date nights, although these are few and far between.

Giving people lifts

Food, time, expensive makeup or clothes, in that order!

Food (allergies and intolerances) but aside from the “reasons” I just don’t like sharing my food. I bought nice nibbles at Christmas for me and I obviously didn’t hide them well.

Also sleep - no kids yet so if I need sleep I go to bed. Any time of day. Don’t ask partner if he minds, there’s nothing coming between me and sleep.

My spot on the sofa, hate it if DH or the DC sit there. I make them move every time!

Lending people clothes. I'd seriously rather give something away than lend it to someone. I've no idea why.

Skincare and make-up.

Wanting to be on time.

I hate having visitors, even worse if they stay over. At least if you are visiting someone then you can choose when you leave, but if someone is at my house I can't exactly throw them out.

Moisturiser. I have dry sensitive skin so my very specific ones are off limits.

My weekly magazine. Nobody can touch it before I've started it.

When I having a carefully planned calorie controlled meal and someone wants a taste.

My space. I'm very touchy about personal space, and therefore not a huggy person unless it's with a few specific people who I trust.

I buy treats for me and hide them from dds 14 and 8. They have their own treats but would just eat mine as well

Sleep, and having visitors.

I’m an absolute nightmare if I don’t get a decent amount of sleep, so really I feel it’s for the greater good.
I also really, really dislike people staying over and feeling that I have to keep everyone entertained. I can’t relax and they always stay too long.

Both of these things sadly can’t be avoided at all times, so I have to suck it up and smile.

My chair. It is a really old, comfy one in the dining room. I make anyone move if they are in it. It isn’t even mine.it was DHs grandmothers. It started off in the lounge and we bought a nice recliner to replace it. It went into the dining room en route to the dump but never moved. It is my happy place.

Overnight guests. Will avoid it if at all possible. It's not that I'm antisocial, I'm happy for people to visit during the day or have friends round for dinner/drinks in the evening but I really value my own space and time to recharge and it just feels like an intrusion having people here overnight.

Chips.

Do. Not. Take. My. Chips.

My mug.
My bath towel.

Use them and I will snap your fingers off one by one.

Eggs. I keep count. Fuming if someone uses one to glaze something. (talking about hen eggs, not actually thought about my feelings towards my own eggs!)

My mental health. I won't let anyone compromise that. Ex bf has recently discovered this, hence the ex.

My time off work every Summer. I hoard my leave for it and want to do exactly what I want with it. There was pressure put on me last year to go to a family wedding abroad in April, and reduce my Summer break. It was a resounding 'no' from me.