I'm a SAHM.
DP gives me £300 a month for personal expenses and I get a little income from my old flat that I rent out. DP has a small business and has made me a co director as he said it would be more tax efficient. There is a joint account for big family expenses
I always do a Self-Assessment because of the rental income. However, now that DP has made me a director of his company I have to declare my 'earnings' and the dividends that I 'get' from his business. This means my tax bill is twice as much. I'm happy to pay the tax owed for the flat income as I had factored that in and put it aside from the flat income. But I sort of think DP should be paying the excess that I am now due because I've been put down as a director of his business? AIBU? DP certainly things so. He hit the roof when I suggested it seemed unfair and said that if 'he' paid for it I would be getting more money than him as he also only has a about £300 a month left over for personal expenses.
Still seems not quite right to me though. I agreed to being Director as I thought it would bring the overall tax bill for the business/him down. I didn't think I would start having to pay tax on the money I was suddenly 'earning' . I have had no change in the monthly money I get and I don't have any more for the increased tax bill.
I said to DP that if he had a job rather than owned a business ( and brought in the equivalent amount of money) he wouldn't be expecting me to give him half of his PAYE tax figure.
DP is getting very angry that I'm even suggesting that this seems unfair.
AIBU??
I genuinely don't know if I'm being a selfish unreasonable cow or if I have a point?