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To want this assholes wife/partner to find him?

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Wotev · 14/01/2019 07:42

I've had a guy message me on POF. Profile pic is a generic photo of a male model. Profile says he's in Kent.
Profile starts with 'I'm not single'.
Asked him where he lives and for a photo.

So, if any of you have a LTB husband/partner who lives in South London (I told him I wasn't near Kent and he told me he's in S London), is 5'11" has a moustache and short beard and is bald and you're suspecting him of cheating....... yup he is.

OP posts:
Patroclus · 14/01/2019 19:22

Is he Charles Bronson?

Ringdonna · 14/01/2019 19:27

We are in an open relationship and both on Tinder. Both our profiles state this.

Wotev · 14/01/2019 19:28
  1. It's not Tinder (read my OP)
  2. He states he's single in his profile, then in his write up states 'ok I'm not single'.
3 He's a cheating bastard
  1. I engaged with him enough to get his actual photo and location.
  2. How dumb are most of you?
OP posts:
Itwillgeteasieripromise · 14/01/2019 21:52

So if you have his actual photo have you google images searched that ?!
If it's on social media somewhere, you might be able to track down his nearest and dearest ?!

ravenmum · 15/01/2019 08:11
  1. It's not Tinder (read my OP)
--> No-one suggested it was.
  1. He states he's single in his profile, then in his write up states 'ok I'm not single'.
-->You: "Profile starts with 'I'm not single'." 3 He's a cheating bastard -->He's one of many, see? I wonder if you're in the right place to be dating atm.
  1. I engaged with him enough to get his actual photo and location.
-->You are probably not in the right place at the moment to be dating atm.
  1. How dumb are most of you?
-->You are SO not in the right place to be dating atm.

OP, take care of yourself, step away from the POF and wait until you're feeling less delicate.

VirtuallyConfused · 15/01/2019 10:02

OP has it ever occurred to you that there may be women on that site looking for exactly that? A non single man?

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