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Would you buy a house if the owners had buried their pets in the garden?

146 replies

baddayattheoffice · 13/01/2019 10:21

So, you've found a house you love, you've exchanged contracts and during a visit to measure the windows the owners drop it into the conversation that they had buried their deceased pets in the garden. Would this put you off buying the house, and if it put you off to the extent that you no longer wanted to buy it, (for example you wanted to dig out for an extension) what would you do?

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NataliaOsipova · 13/01/2019 10:55

Wouldn’t bother me at all! As a pp said, wouldn’t bother a builder either.

Esspee · 13/01/2019 10:55

If they'd buried their grandmother in the garden I would back out of the sale but a pet - no.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 13/01/2019 10:57

We told our builder if they found a squashy cotton bag buried in the garden , it isn't full of stolen money and put it back!

We have a cat and 6 guinea-pigs ( with another one waiting to go to earth when DH digs a grave ) in ours .

Bringbackthestripes · 13/01/2019 10:58

Wouldn’t bother me at all. Actually it’s good that you know, it could be quite alarming to start digging and then start coming across large bones.
Our old dog is buried in our old garden, I do sometimes wonder if they have found her. She had only been dead 6 months when we moved so that would be a gruesome discovery.

TSSDNCOP · 13/01/2019 10:59

Maybe they mentioned it in case you broke ground, thought you’d bought from mass murderer types, and promptly hit 101.

Can there be a garden in Britain without a dead pet in the garden?

Butteredghost · 13/01/2019 10:59

At this point in history every garden has a few pets in it surely. Wouldn't bother me at all.

Glitterinmykeyboard · 13/01/2019 11:00

If anyone digs my garden they are going to think we were obsessed with rabbits the amount of them in my garden.

In reality DD hates seeing mixi rabbits suffering so i'm sent out to dispatch any she sees on the way home from school and then we have another bloody funeral for it. We also have a few dead moles, numerous road kill and two family pets.

AllTakenSoRubbishUsername · 13/01/2019 11:00

Highly unlikely to find a garden without dead pets in!
Now if there were a missing spouse I might think twice...

brizzledrizzle · 13/01/2019 11:00

I think it's normal to bury pets in the garden, we've certainly done it at every house we lived in - our current garden has at least 6 animal graves in it that we know of.

As long as it wasn't Shergar I wouldn't be bothered by it.

PositivelyPERF · 13/01/2019 11:00

a mass grave from the English Civil War in our garden.

How big is your garden?! Shock

ppeatfruit · 13/01/2019 11:01

In the old days gardeners would deliberately plant a rose in a cat's grave, they grew much better apparently!

The earth is made of decomposed corpses, and plant life of course, large and small ,there wouldn't be much of it otherwise!

robininbrum · 13/01/2019 11:01

Wouldn't be put off. In fact, the previous owner of our house buried their Labrador in the middle of the front lawn (about 3 months before they put the house on the market and 6 months before we bought it and moved in!) You could still see the 'hump' in the middle of the lawn. Only about 3" incline IYSWIM but yeah, right in front of our lounge window.

DH planted a little flower garden/heather garden around it, and it was pretty much covered within a year and a half.

Now if it was a HUMAN body buried there......... Shock That is quite a different story.

(We are not in the same house now BTW. Moved several years back, but it was nothing to do with the dog being buried there.)

TSSDNCOP · 13/01/2019 11:01

It’s pay for the extension if you finally located Shergar.

SoyDora · 13/01/2019 11:05

What about it is bothering you? Just trying to understand the issue.

brizzledrizzle · 13/01/2019 11:06

It’s pay for the extension if you finally located Shergar.

Grin That's true enough, I expect he's more likely to have been found in a glue factory than a semi-rural garden near Bristol though Sad

Booboostwo · 13/01/2019 11:07

When found the skull of the GSD dog belonging to the old owners when we dug a part of the garden. The DCs thought it was cool and have kept it outside the Wendy house,

tessiegirl · 13/01/2019 11:11

No, wouldn't bother me. In fact, I would expect that pets had been buried in gardens. Just a part of history...

MrsTumbletap · 13/01/2019 11:12

Wouldn't bother me. As a child we always buried rabbits, guinea pigs etc in the garden. But if it was a horse it would be a different matter........

cuppycakey · 13/01/2019 11:12

Of course - you could hardly avoid it I would have thought. Confused

Last year I sold a house with various crosses marking the graves of pets. Most people I know have buried pets in the garden.

This reminds me of when the Gas Network chaps came to lay a new pipeline through the garden and they stayed until about 9pm at night because I asked them (very nicely) not to disturb my recently deceased cats grave, so they had to do a big detour.

I am sure the builders will be considerate and respectful. Don't let it put you off.

OneStepMoreFun · 13/01/2019 11:13

Most gardens of family homes probably have a pet or two buried in them.

ImNotKitten · 13/01/2019 11:13

It’s a bit of a shame but I wouldn’t let it put you off the house. At least you know exactly where they are rather than coming across them unexpectedly.

Confusedbeetle · 13/01/2019 11:15

There wont be much left

Chouetted · 13/01/2019 11:19

The horse a PP mentioned might give me a bit of a surprise, but after binge watching back to back episodes of Time Team, I can assure you that there is far far grimmer things you can find in your garden than a couple of small pets.

8misskitty8 · 13/01/2019 11:19

I would ask her if she wanted to take the dog with her.

adultchildalcoholicparents · 13/01/2019 11:20

A house near to my mother had not only many pets buried in the garden but also small headstones for the graves. And they were all at the front of the garden near to the pavement (no fences).