Firstly really sorry to hear your troubles,
Secondly... GET IT OUT, GET IT OUT NOW!
Thirdly... Don't read this if you are of a nervous disposition.
My Dp had a dodgy gall bladder last year. Destroyed our whole year and nearly destroyed her and us. She was in immense pain during weekly attacks, most leading to ambulances to casualty. It was a nightmare. I've never seen or heard anything like it, and I was in Nam.
My advice is get it taken out asap. On the NHS if you can or privately if able, it costs between £3000 and £7000 on the private. Go for it, get it out! It will only get worse and possibly kill you.
Dp had attacks while pregnant but they got 100% worse after baby was here. February last year was the first nightmare attack, I went to bed and was woken by horrific screaming from downstairs. I ran downstairs (ice axe in hand) expecting to kill whoever was attacking my family, to discover baby crying and Dp on the kitchen floor screaming. It was proper awful. This continued every week until the bastard gall bladder was removed in September. She is now recovering nicely, but slowly.
I really don't have the words to describe the horror, she was in so much pain all the time, she wanted to die for the pain to stop. She screamed and screamed every few days with horrifying attacks every week.
We were lucky that my employer was amazing, I could call and be given compassionate leave to look after baby while Dp was in hospital, this happened weekly. It was compassionate leave as it was deemed the attacks were distressing enough that I could not reasonably be expected to function at work and all I did was see the attacks, not actually have them myself.
As a result of my Dp's gall bladder, we both have mild PTSD now! I don't sleep well as I expect another attack. Its given me proper anxiety. I also go to pieces at the smell of cider vinegar. Dp is the same, cant sleep, too scared to eat, expects an attack at any moment.
Advice: Get it out.
If not taken out then advice is:
Get partners employer on board (lots of days off required).
Write all details on paper, name address DOB for numerous ambulance calls.
Partner gets first aid training as it helps deal with the symptoms and allows spotting of worsening symptoms. Need to know blood pressure, pulse, temperature, shock etc etc.
Keep hospital bag ready inc. mobile charger and mobile.
Get mother in Law ready for hospital runs. I stayed at home with baby, MIL went to hospital with DP. It helps minimize distress to baby.
Get Morphine and pills for your arse (I cant spell supositories!) and use them liberally at first sign of attacks.
Drink copious amounts of cider vinegar and indigestion stuff if it works. Cider vinegar is often the thing that helps.
Expect to wait hours for ambulances, if they turn up at all. ALWAYS phone an ambulance, dont drive to A&E (it will be taken more seriously if ambulance used and you dont have to wait in A&E, also will make people more likely to take it out). In reality there is huge scope for complications during attacks, victim needs to be in a an ambulance not in the passenger seat screaming the whole way.
If the pain is diffuse which it will be, its important to ensure that any chest pain is clearly mentioned to ambulance people, even if unsure if it is chest pain then best mention it. ALWAYS MENTION CHEST PAIN IF YOU CAN! Ambulances respond quicker to chest pain. Dont lie though as its important not to take an ambulance away from someone worse, but if the pain can be classed as near your chest than say so loudly.
Tell ambulance that its Gall Bladder, ensure pain is described in the right place, but also in diffuse places.
It is a nightmare! Hope your year goes better than ours!
Otherwise good luck.
(sorry about the caps... but I am actually shouting!) (also sorry about the ambulance/chest pain stuff... but when its your partner and baby's mother screaming in pain and ambulances don't turn up then...anything goes!).