My DB only seems to bother with me when he needs a shoulder to cry on.
His 5 year relationship has been on & off for months. When it's on I don't hear from him but when it's off he's texting & ringing wanting to have a whinge.
I'm starting to feel resentful & unsympathetic because he's only ever interested in talking about his drama & has no interest in how I am or what I'm doing.
I've spoken to him about it before as he does it with DM which is more upsetting as he'll call, worry her then go quiet once everything is back on track & won't return her calls but nothing ever changes.
AIBU to be sick of feeling like I'm being used? They are "off" again & he's at a lose end over the weekend. DH & I have plans we could invite him to but don't feel like I want to bother as he'll just go NC again once they are back together.
AIBU or am I being a terrible sister?