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AIBU to be annoyed

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Buntybearbess · 09/01/2019 13:37

My housemate today seems to have woken up today already annoyed or with some sort of vendetta against me. I think part of it is to do with her just being in a bad mood herself at the moment and she’s taking it out on me because she knows me better than she knows the others. But I’m not putting up with it. I’m ill and in pain and working, I’m not sure what I’m supposed to have done to annoy her but I’m just sick of it. We have house viewings with three/four other people this week and right now all I want to do is look for a studio flat instead. She can be really lovely both to live with and be friends with but there are also times when her immaturity, selfishness, bossiness, grabby attitude and her jealousy and mood swings make her a pain in the arse to deal with and I find when she’s like this I’m walking on eggshells so I don’t upset her because she’s sensitive. When I’m actuality she’s more often than not an entitled cheeky fucker. But despite that more often than not I like her.

Right now I’m probably pissing her off somewhat as as far as she is aware I’m still asleep because I can’t be arsed to deal with her right now so I’m listening for when she’s done complaining and ‘cleaning’ and leaves the communal areas so i can go clean my things. I know if I go out into them now and she starts trying to dictate what I’m doing and talking to me like a child I’ll not be able to hold my tongue.

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Sirzy · 09/01/2019 13:39

I think part of living with someone else is accepting that everyone has bad days and as much as possible learning how to just smile and nod on those day as you get on well most of the time.

Buntybearbess · 09/01/2019 13:47

Oh I know that @Sirzy I’m just annoyed that it’s always directed at me despite the fact I’m the only one who bothers to actually do any housework. This will be the second time this week and I’m not sure I can keep my mouth shut, because she’s bitching about me to another housemate who is consistently filthy, think cooking and leaving the waste from veg on the bench for two days or blending sauce and leaving the splatter everywhere until someone tells him to clean it, because I have a singular pan of food on the hob waiting to be refrigerated.

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