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AIBU?

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Aibu to ignore my brother's safety concerns?

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seenna · 08/01/2019 16:41

I walk my German Shepherd at 9/10 pm for his evening walk. I take him to a large meadow on the bank of the river. He will only poo along the very edges of the open field where the grass is longer/he has hedges to sniff along. I'm 25 years old and with my 70lb dog I feel pretty safe as he is very protective and wary of strangers in the dark (but well behaved). Anyway, my brother was home for Christmas and "forbade" me from taking this route (he is very risk-averse, perhaps overly so). This part of the park is completely dark but does back onto houses. AIBU to think he's being overly-protective and I should just ignore him? Tbh he's made me a bit paranoid now. My options are limited as I can't take my dog anywhere with a lot of wildlife (deer, rabbits etc) as he loves to chase them.

P.s my brother is not a controlling weirdo, just very caring.

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Birdsgottafly · 08/01/2019 18:02

I had a male rescue GS that I had to walk him at night to let him have a run off the lead. He'd come from an abusive background and became overprotective of me.

I never had any issues, even though I went to not-totally-safe Parks.

My issue with what your doing is the risk with you catching the attention of someone dangerous. If you can vary your route etc.

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