Nieces wedding

[Iamtheoneandonly2018]

Very LC with my Brother since I had PND and he stood me to stop being a drama queen! Anyway. DN getting married ( think it's this week or next ) and I haven't received an invitation ( not a problem as not fussed one way or the other )
SIL texted last night to ask if I am going to the wedding! I've not responded yet.Would you reply?

Just reply saying we weren't invited so weren't trying to make a point. Hope the wedding goes well and wishing the bride and groom a lovely day

They would have chased up RSVPs long before now!

Exactly Bloomburger

We had similar, not family though.
Kept getting told the invite was on the way, when it did eventually turn up we'd been bumped back down to evening only, despite being told it was a full day invite.
The evening RSVP date had already passed too, so we were not even 2nd tier guests, we really were required to make numbers up and save face!

We ignored it completely and didn't bother going at all.
We didn't miss much by all accounts either!