Another one here who has 3 emergency admissions very close together before they would remove it as an emergency. The 2nd to last visit was just after Christmas, and A and E was heaving. The Dr I saw that time admitted that ideally they would remove it that day, but the time of year meant that they couldn’t as the hospital had no beds, and had even had to cancel all planned operations as they were so stretched.
The first attacks I had were cholycystitis, I was in for 3 days with that for IV antobiotics then on high dose oral antibiotics for 2 weeks. This seemed to clear the infection, and I was put on the list for the op (I’m pretty sure they prefer not to do it whilst there is active infection or severe inflammation).
However, a few weeks later I had an even worse pain, which turned out to be biliary colic. It was caused by one large stone that kept getting stuck in the biliary tract. Cholecystitis was painful, but biliary colic was absolutely excruciating, much worse than childbirth. I was given buscopan and large does of IV morphine, yet the pain remained so they ended up doing it as an emergency. By this time it was near the end of January so not quite as manic. Just as well they did remove it too, as the surgeon later told me it was so inflamed that it was on the point of rupturing.
Anyway, try and hang in there for a while if you can - it is far preferable to have it done as a planned op, it is less painful,!the recovery time is usually shorter and it reduces the risk of the surgeon having to convert to open surgery (as opposed to keyhole).
I used cider vinegar for a bit act as some think it helps pass them. I thought at the time it was helping, but in hindsight I wonder if it helped cause the biliary colic by encouraging by body to try and expel a stone that was simply too big to pass through the biliary tract.
Wish I could give you more tips on how to help the pain, but tbh, nothing at all really helped when it became severe. Good luck with it, and don’t be afraid to go back to a and e if the pain becomes unmanageable as they have a duty to try and relieve any severe pain.