long story short, I love in the North of england, my mum lives in South coast and my DS who is 23 at college and working, lives near my mum, she's told me my son is better off with me living away from him, his girlfriend his 5 months pregnant, my mum has told me she's going to be nana and I can't be, I do have mental health issues and after many years eventually been diagnosed with ADHD and waiting on final assessment for ASD, so yes my son is better being away from me, but I don't need her to remind me. I don't know what to say to my DS we get on really well , I hadn't had a relationship with my mum since my son was born, basically mum and dad told me to abort the baby or they wouldn't support me, I refused and aside from my mum being lovely when I had him, I got no support, but my son is going to be a dad at same age as me and she's delighted. My son can't understand why I had no contact for years and now blames me in the nicest way ie it's not your fault your not right in the head . I'm hurt and not in good place, I'm actually happy about the baby.