Bully ex calling ss and police

[Rainbow181980]

My ex was a bully through the most of out relationship , he cut the gas of to the house when we broke up my older kids and our 1 year old were in the property I had no where to go so was stuck for a few weeks nothing police could do as was his property , when I did eventually get sorted he tried to win me back which didn’t work so he moved on and married pretty quick , and for the last year they have both made my life hell , He barely pays towards our child nothing I can do as he’s self employed also rang ss twice and police 7 times I’ve never been involved with either ever my older children are all almost leaving school . Is there anything I can do to stop him calling these services as both have said he sounds controlling and just trying to cause me trouble

See if you can get an injunction or no contact order for both of them. If they continue see if they can be done for harassment. If you can I’d ring women’s aid or Domestic Violence charity for more in-depth advice. Even though you’re no longer together these abusive behaviours shouldn’t be happen and see what they can advise you on what’s best to do.

I’m sorry you’re going through this, I can’t bear men like that and their partners. If it’s any help a lot of men behave in the EXACT same way it’s really uncanny. There will be support for you as it happens a lot. Good luck I hope you get it sorted.

Sounds like my ex. I'm so sorry. Take it to court, if SS have stated their views as such, then they should support you with evidence. Good luck. You can do this. I got through it.

Why DO they get married five mins after letting us leave though. My ex accused me of being jealous about it too - jog on, I'd been trying to leave for well over 10 months!

Thank you , it seeem like he won’t stop this is a man who has completely moved on with his life , I did a course at wearside women in need and that was a great help so much support , I fear what him and wife will try to pull in the future told the police what he was trying to do and they were no help whatsoever x

I can’t belive they meet women that will go along with there awful behaviour how would they feel they must see what they are doing is wrong and so cruel x

their awful *