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AIBU?

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For wanting to confront Manager?

7 replies

yikkydeeyak · 05/01/2019 19:27

*NC as outting.

Today my Colleague dropped into conversation that she actively peruses Married Men. We were having Casual chit-chat about her Date from earlier in the Week when she dropped the bomb that he wasn't her type because he wasn't married - she then made a sarcastic comment about the fact that I was married so would probably hate her now. I didn't like her much in the first place but now I like her even less. I was so taken back I muffled something about Customers then wandered off..
AIBU to strike up the subject again just so I can tell her what I really think?

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sirmione16 · 05/01/2019 19:41

Let her live her miserable life. No good will come her way from this, only lies and deceit from men, being the OW is all lust anyway, and lack of respect and morale from anyone who knows this about her. Walk away with your head high that you only have to work with her not socialise.

Strongmummy · 05/01/2019 19:44

No, you’re at work therefore you remain professional. She’s foolish to share such details with you in the workplace. You should just rise above it. In the long run she’ll get her just desserts anyway

BreakYourselfAgainstMyStones · 05/01/2019 19:46

I'm sure she knows what you really think.

What would be the point in sparking up the conversation just to have a go at her? It's hardly going to make her change her ways.

yikkydeeyak · 05/01/2019 19:56

@BreakYourselfAgainstMyStones I know, but I just regret not making the smallest of comments to show my disapproval. Those type of Women (and Men) just appall Me! I've never met someone so upfront about it.

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JustABetterPlayer · 05/01/2019 19:59

Openly creating conflict with your manager, not the best idea.

FuckingYuleLog · 05/01/2019 20:31

I’d just feel sorry for her tbh. Married men aren’t a type. They’re all different appearances, personalities etc. What her actual type is is disloyal men. And there’s clearly something in her that she needs to feel she’s taking something from someone else if she only goes for married men. Pity is the correct response I think.

Consolidatedyourloins · 05/01/2019 20:33

Maybe she was lying/joking to annoy you?

You seem confused as to whether she is your colleague or manager!

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