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I'm Mom when referred to apparently

45 replies

Snoz · 05/01/2019 18:18

Lol, AIBU to be amused at my dc's decision to refer to me as my Mom? Mom? We don't live in America!
She goes to an international boarding school so perhaps she's finding a level, but I was always Mammy.

Anyway, I guess I can cope with Mom.
At least she's not calling me 'her at home' or something.
Mom. I think I can get used to it.

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SoleBizzz · 05/01/2019 18:19

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LoniceraJaponica · 05/01/2019 18:21

Mum

Snoz · 05/01/2019 18:21

No, I'm a white mother of mixed race black child.

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jessstan2 · 05/01/2019 18:22

In some parts of Britain, the Midlands for example, people use, "Mom", instead of, "Mum". Doesn't matter really though, does it? It's much the same as, "Mum", and is quite friendly.

Idontbelieveinthemoon · 05/01/2019 18:22

DS7 called me "not Daddy" for the first year of being able to talk, so at least it's not that.

Tippexy · 05/01/2019 18:23

Hmm @SoleBizzz

SoleBizzz · 05/01/2019 18:23

I'm a Mom of a dual heritage child.

MarthasGinYard · 05/01/2019 18:23

This again?

It's mom in many central areas of uk

Thewifipasswordis · 05/01/2019 18:23

Dont some yorkshire folk call their Mum 'Mom'?

I know a lot in Manchester call them Mam etc

swampytiggaa · 05/01/2019 18:24

I’m a mom. It’s not just American. I’m a midlander.

SoleBizzz · 05/01/2019 18:24

Oh FFS I've offended someone. Sorry. Next time I compose the English Oxford dictionary I'll leave the world Mammy out?

Snoz · 05/01/2019 18:25

I don't think this is local, as we're all Mammy. I think this is coming from the international element, so she doesn't want to stick out among them all by saying My Mammy, so just fits the mould. I quite like my new title! I feel all American and capable and soccer Mom!

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BlancheM · 05/01/2019 18:25

Oh fucking hell

Snoz · 05/01/2019 18:26

She's not in Britain.

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BlancheM · 05/01/2019 18:27

I went to international boarding school abroad and no, it's nothing to do with that as people refer to their mothers in their mother tongue/local dialect.

FascinatingCarrot · 05/01/2019 18:27

SoleBizzz is in a bad mood.

DaphneFanshaw · 05/01/2019 18:30

My dc have taken to calling me Ma Confused not sure where and when that influence came from. It is strange though when they start calling you something different as though they’ve always called you that.

RandomMess · 05/01/2019 18:31

I get mother these days Confused

Chapterandverse · 05/01/2019 18:35

I'm mammy, I'm Irish.

I also call my mammy, mammy.

Dh (also irish) calls his mammy, Mum.

My son often calls me by my first name also Hmm

FascinatingCarrot · 05/01/2019 18:35

I get mother too Grin

Snoz · 05/01/2019 18:35

I feel like more of a Mom than a Mammy though. Maybe she has picked up on my lack of mothering skills.

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DaphneFanshaw · 05/01/2019 18:38

I would rather be a Mom than a Ma, Ma just makes me think of the old sheep in babe or Ma Larkin.

LoniceraJaponica · 05/01/2019 18:39

Not as far as I know TheWiFi.
I have lived in West and South Yorkshire, and it is mum or mummy.

PerryPerryThePlatypus · 05/01/2019 18:40

DD1 who is 18 called me mother this morning. In all fairness it's because I did a particularly loud fart in the kitchen and she could hear it upstairs. Other than that I'm Mam.

FascinatingCarrot · 05/01/2019 18:40

Ah dont be daft Snoz she's just picking up on the lingo. Its nothing about mom/mammy/mum skills.

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