Bit outing but never mind.
DD is 4 and DS is 1.
DP has a relative that flies helicopters. He's been up numerous times. I'm not keen on the idea so have always politely refused.
Hes taken DD up in a helicopter before. I didn't like it, expressed this, but it fell on deaf ears. He's done it again a couple of times since. Each time I've said how annoyed I am but he doesn't listen and always goes on about how she loved it.
Today he's taken the kids out to allow me to have a post Xmas declutter and sort the kids rooms.
I've just found out he intends to take them both up in a helicopter again.
I'm miffed. I've told him I don't like it, that I'd rather be didn't, and if it were up to me they wouldn't go up until they're older.
What adds to this is that when he's been up with the relative before he's told me that he always shows off and has acted dangerously and had several near misses. In fact he once said he'd never fly with him again due to his behaviour!
Would you be miffed too? AIBU to think he shouldn't take such young kids up like that with his reckless relative?
I wouldn't trust said relative to babysit the kids for 5 minutes on land so trusting him to keep my babies safe in the sky is a little hard for me. DP is of course up there with them too but it pisses me off that he doesn't listen to me!